Sep 03, 2007 07:34
Someone told me that in a relationship if there is no fighting then either you dont care or your not even willing to make an argument about whatever the situation may be.
Now, I believe that to a certain extent. I do not believe that a couple needs to yell at eachother or curse or make eachother feel bad at the end of the conversation. To be honest, at this age there really shouldnt be much to argue about. (If you aren't a complete idiot)
I believe that if you are in a relationship with someone, and well something bothers you or the other person thats where communication comes in and you both discuss with eachother what may be bothering you. No yelling, just a plain out simple conversation till things are settled between you two.
See, back about 3 almost 4 years ago when i was dating someone, i would fight over silly stuff, and now my last relationship, its not that i didnt care, but i just didnt find the need to get angry and fight with someone over something i can simply say..i didnt like that or, can we talk about the other night. & bam thats it...
Relationships are simple now...why make them complicated...