May 27, 2006 01:36
i'm so sick of the 1999 spice girls mentality where "girl power" is the idea that you can sleep around and dress like a prostitute. "feminism" is displaying your feminity to be objectified and enjoyed by strangers all over.
fucking idiots.
feminism is NOT using your sexuality to get what you want. feminism is NOT exploiting yourself of someone else to get some sense of power.
not that I am an expert in what feminism is, but I know for sure it is not this.
I have no respect for women - girls - who aid in their own objectification.
I have no respect for girls who have sex with people they don't care for to fill some type of void.
If you want to have sex, by all means do it. Love isn't even necessary, if that's not what you want. But don't do it seeking some sort of validation.
Its just a meaningless act.
Your body really isn't that different or new. Its just like every other naked body out there. when they're fucking you, they don't care about how flat your stomach is.
and when they're loving you, they don't care that your thighs giggle a little.
nudity is the second most boring thing in the world. second only to honesty.
i do believe that the idea of a "whore" or a "slut" is construction of the patriarchial society we live in, but why buy into it? why fulfill it?
the majority of people i am surrounded by disgust me. the "college" culture is a comodification of people and of a lifestyle that doesn't mean anything.
and we all buy into it.
...some times i just get so mad, damnit.