hmmm
see, the boy and i, we're babies. neither of us is at all part of a scene (or whatever - scene seems like such a loaded word), so we're not very experienced. we certainly played around a bit more when we first got together (chalk it up to glee at finding another kinkster by accident) but that's faded into vanilla more recently (thin walls where we each lived over the summer). so, how to start up again? in, like, a more established way?
we know enough not to:
-do something without talking it over
-play without a safe word
i'll bring it up to him soon, when neithe rof us are so inundated with schoolwork. we need groundrules so that we don't break the mood by trying to figure out what we're doing then and there. we need to negotiate around that nagging desire of mine to be dominated. honestly - i'd smack me across the face sometimes, but the dear boy prefers to just annoy me back. it works all too well.
right. resolved, then. if he doesn't read this first, he's in for a surprise.
we know enough not to:
-do something without talking it over
-play without a safe word
i'll bring it up to him soon, when neithe rof us are so inundated with schoolwork. we need groundrules so that we don't break the mood by trying to figure out what we're doing then and there. we need to negotiate around that nagging desire of mine to be dominated. honestly - i'd smack me across the face sometimes, but the dear boy prefers to just annoy me back. it works all too well.
right. resolved, then. if he doesn't read this first, he's in for a surprise.