Firstly I also don’t think this is so much an attack. Paula is just telling Alexandra how she feels. I agree that some of the things said are mean, and I certainly STRONGLY disagree with most of them because I like Alexandra allot, and like Graeme I want that to be known. I just think that allot of her “whitby friends” are getting too defensive on her part. I cant testify to it, but I’m sure Paula and Alexandra have a very complicated relationship and I don’t think anyone other than the two of them can really form an informed opinion on how they should feel about each other. When two people that close have a falling out, they’re going to have allot to complain about each other. I personally don’t think things like this online are the best way to express your feelings, but its certainly better than keeping it bottled up, or just complaining to other people but never getting your feelings out in the open. To look from Paula’s perspective, she lost her best friend, who now seems, and hopefully is happy, with her “new” friends. Which I think is perfectly fine, but I can defiantly understand how Paula can feel the way she feels, and put in the same position I would be just as bitter, but I might not have the courage to put it out in the open like this. I don’t agree with graeme that this is totally an apology, but I think its as close as reasonably can be. People rarely admit that they were wrong, or that what they feel is unreasonable. In a situation like this someone cant just say they were wrong and they’re sorry, so I think Paula’s making it clear that she stands by her opinions and what she thought before, but that she misses Alexandra, and is sorry. That’s how I take it. So Really I do think that this is very mean, and I think personally that Alexandra isn’t any of those things, but I understand why Paula would think that and I don’t think she is being as big of a bitch in this as she’s made out to be by other people.
Secondly I think allot more unreasonably hateful stuff has been said in these comments, for no reason. Like Brent, I know you were just defending yourself for what Petra said, but it was just a comment solely about her it didn’t even relate back to the subject, and you couldn’t have left it off on a more immature note. “Jump off a building you fucking cunt.” Classy. But at least you had some provocation. Then Alex, nice one man. Because you know, Petra spends all her time doing crack off guys asses at the dungeon. Your basically doing exactly what Paula did, just with allot less justification and more immaturely. I still like you allot obviously, but I’m betting even you would admit later that, that was just a stupid thing to post. It first off is hurtful and incredibly stupid, and it just takes away from what Paula probably wanted to be a serious thing for her and Alexandra. At least Brent and Petra have realistic things to complain to eachother about. Lastly in regards to the previous comment. Lay off Graeme, just because someone disagrees with you doesn’t mean you have to deliver a personal attack. Again doing EXACTLY the thing Paula did that your complaining about. I think the only person that made a mature serious argument that Paula was being a “bitch” was Chris. When you don’t make your entire opinion into a “why the other person is wrong and stupid” argument it comes across allot better. He got the point across better than anyone else and he didn’t make anyone feel like shit. Everyone else here should think about what Paula did that was so terrible than look at what they do all the time, maybe apply some of what you project to other unto your own principles.
Finally to Paula and Alexandra from what I personally have known of you two you’ve both changed allot, maybe for the better maybe for the worse. Reasonably changes that have brought you two apart haven’t been taken well. Honestly Paula I think what you’ve said is hurtful and untrue, but you have reasons I’m sure that I can’t even a little bit understand. To everyone else, we should all put aside our own little differences at this situation and recognize that maybe you don’t really know what it’s all about, because I sure don’t totally understand the situation.
Secondly I think allot more unreasonably hateful stuff has been said in these comments, for no reason. Like Brent, I know you were just defending yourself for what Petra said, but it was just a comment solely about her it didn’t even relate back to the subject, and you couldn’t have left it off on a more immature note. “Jump off a building you fucking cunt.” Classy. But at least you had some provocation. Then Alex, nice one man. Because you know, Petra spends all her time doing crack off guys asses at the dungeon. Your basically doing exactly what Paula did, just with allot less justification and more immaturely. I still like you allot obviously, but I’m betting even you would admit later that, that was just a stupid thing to post. It first off is hurtful and incredibly stupid, and it just takes away from what Paula probably wanted to be a serious thing for her and Alexandra. At least Brent and Petra have realistic things to complain to eachother about. Lastly in regards to the previous comment. Lay off Graeme, just because someone disagrees with you doesn’t mean you have to deliver a personal attack. Again doing EXACTLY the thing Paula did that your complaining about. I think the only person that made a mature serious argument that Paula was being a “bitch” was Chris. When you don’t make your entire opinion into a “why the other person is wrong and stupid” argument it comes across allot better. He got the point across better than anyone else and he didn’t make anyone feel like shit. Everyone else here should think about what Paula did that was so terrible than look at what they do all the time, maybe apply some of what you project to other unto your own principles.
Finally to Paula and Alexandra from what I personally have known of you two you’ve both changed allot, maybe for the better maybe for the worse. Reasonably changes that have brought you two apart haven’t been taken well. Honestly Paula I think what you’ve said is hurtful and untrue, but you have reasons I’m sure that I can’t even a little bit understand. To everyone else, we should all put aside our own little differences at this situation and recognize that maybe you don’t really know what it’s all about, because I sure don’t totally understand the situation.
Matt
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