Doormat anyone?

[light9]

Alright I have a situation I need your guys opinion. So there is this Guy (can you see where this is going) and I am kind of confused with some of his behavior so I thought since most of you people are guys I will ask what you think. Because right now two of my roommates are about to go have a "talk" with him (scary, scary) and Kip is about to go

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[_skye_]

Dude, let's be clear (but not TOO clear!!!): I have no problem with threesomes as long as everyone's on board! Foursomes are great, too, IMHO, and let's just leave it at "the more, the merrier!".

Here's the rub: your roomates et all are all on the high horse about definitions. Is he your Boyfriend? are you Dating? Can he Call After 11? Stuff like this -- and that's OK, humans like to define stuff and get comfortable.

Do YOU want to? Do you want to have all this locked down? Do you mind that another person (who couldn't find a date) went along, too? Are you just dying for The Next Level of stare-into-his-eyes or what? Is there a reason you absolutely have to have this guy alone? They want this for you because by Defining you can also Progress To The Next Level -- and keep in mind Utah has only about 6 levels until you get proposed to. They just want to see you properly enslaved to married to a Good Mormon Boy ASAP.

Is this really what you WANT?

If not, I suggest saying "I'm fine the way things are. We had a good time. If it bothers me, I'll take care of it." Repeat ad nausium.

[takumi]

Right... *makes a note in his little black orgy book*

Great minds think alike

[light9]

Well you came through again skye: I can always rely on you to validate what I am thinking. As for what I am going to do read one of my responses below.

And just to let you know if my friends had the Utah/mormon/marriage mindset they WON'T be my friends. Really. I would have laughed and walked away a long time ago.