friends don't let friends ditch you for their significant others
What do you do if you don't like your best friends boy/girlfriend?
I feel like this is something I'm CONSTANTLY struggling with...
are my standards just too high for my friends?
I know I'm not that judgmental, there are just some people I really don't like.
Maybe I just like my friends too much and think they deserve to date people that are as awesome as them.
I also feel like if you're going to blow me off for someone else, they need to be pretty awesome. And I don't even mean this in a caddy sarcastic way, but completely genuinely, I really do feel like it wouldn't bother me as much if the person I was ditched for was totally awesome and nice.
But with that in mind, DON'T DITCH ME FOR YOUR FREAKING S.O.
It's been my pet peeve since I was 13 and my best friend of 3 years got her first boyfriend, blew me off a million times and then told everyone I was a lesbian (Yes, this seriously happened to me. Mean Girls really is just that accurate.)
And it seems to be an ongoing theme ever since then.
Maybe I should just let it go and not let it bother me. In a way, I don't get nearly as upset about it as I used to.
I just firmly believe that it's downright shitty and not cool. Especially if the person you're ditching me for is lame.
I don't see how people think it's terrible when your boyfriend ditches you, but if it's just your friend, who cares?
I know I'm on a soapbox here, but I just really don't get it.
Am I the only person that values good friends in the same way I value my boyfriend?
Maybe I take things too seriously.
Oh well, last night penny and I drank pimm's and had a karaoke party at her house singing along to our favourite 90s hits. it was awesssoommeeee. And reminded me of how great Lauryn Hill is.
then danced the night away at limelight, and I told myself I was going to go to bed early then ended up going to bed at 3:30! ahhh Then had to wake up at 9 and failed a quiz in intro to programming. eep! and then I took a nap today and woke up when it was dark. I hate that...
Enough silly ranting. I'm exhausted!
I feel like this is something I'm CONSTANTLY struggling with...
are my standards just too high for my friends?
I know I'm not that judgmental, there are just some people I really don't like.
Maybe I just like my friends too much and think they deserve to date people that are as awesome as them.
I also feel like if you're going to blow me off for someone else, they need to be pretty awesome. And I don't even mean this in a caddy sarcastic way, but completely genuinely, I really do feel like it wouldn't bother me as much if the person I was ditched for was totally awesome and nice.
But with that in mind, DON'T DITCH ME FOR YOUR FREAKING S.O.
It's been my pet peeve since I was 13 and my best friend of 3 years got her first boyfriend, blew me off a million times and then told everyone I was a lesbian (Yes, this seriously happened to me. Mean Girls really is just that accurate.)
And it seems to be an ongoing theme ever since then.
Maybe I should just let it go and not let it bother me. In a way, I don't get nearly as upset about it as I used to.
I just firmly believe that it's downright shitty and not cool. Especially if the person you're ditching me for is lame.
I don't see how people think it's terrible when your boyfriend ditches you, but if it's just your friend, who cares?
I know I'm on a soapbox here, but I just really don't get it.
Am I the only person that values good friends in the same way I value my boyfriend?
Maybe I take things too seriously.
Oh well, last night penny and I drank pimm's and had a karaoke party at her house singing along to our favourite 90s hits. it was awesssoommeeee. And reminded me of how great Lauryn Hill is.
then danced the night away at limelight, and I told myself I was going to go to bed early then ended up going to bed at 3:30! ahhh Then had to wake up at 9 and failed a quiz in intro to programming. eep! and then I took a nap today and woke up when it was dark. I hate that...
Enough silly ranting. I'm exhausted!