Storeys; stories...

[lexelle]

Recently I was quite buddy with this wife of a certain associate of Bing. Let's call her A. She told me about how they met, why they became and what they are.

Pretty sad to have borne someone 3 children and get treated like a nobody.

1. On an occasion when A was pregnant, she found a cooked fly in her noodles and went to tell the stall owner about it. The auntie got defensive and insisted that A was accusing her and refused to do anything about the noodles. A got upset and went to call MOH about the issue. The auntie saw A calling, went up to her and started to rant at A. Hubby came over and told A that she was making a mountain out of a molehill and tell her to forgot about the whole thing. It wasn't till the auntie cursed their kid to have no backside when hubby got angry and started to scold the auntie back.
2. Another occasion when A was pregnant. Hubby got into an argument with someone over carpark issues and A was already ready to back up any fight if anything happens. A wonders why hubby cannot treat her the way she does to him and hubby gave no answer.
3. A caught her husband's affairs with colleagues, fucking around when in Thailand, numbers from various females with no explanations. Seldom touch her, don't like hugs, not affectionate...

I personally witnessed him shouting at her at their pub. I would never forget that look on his face. I can't imagine if my other half looks at me with that expression. I will just get the fucking hell out of the relationship.

Now let's see B.

1. B had her husband cheating on her a month after their marriage with some karaoke babe when he was out entertaining, so she can't help being suspicious. She doesn't like her hubby hugging other females nor hide in one corner whispering softly and laughing loudly. She wish that her hubby will be more responsible about being a family.
2. Hubby loves to drink, doesn't put a cap on it. Now that B's pregnant and due in June. He still goes around drinking and doesn't spend time with her too often. I got his side of the story. He said that she doesn't have a business mind and lost a hundred thousand of HIS family fortune. Ran the company and made losses for 2 years. Okay, that's not the point. He doesn't like B thinking she's some smarty pants when she knows nuts to nothing. She's only good as a housewife. That makes me wonder why he insisted on putting her in charge of a business when she said no.
3. When they had a miscarriage last year. B was sad. Hubby was relieved. He said that he wasn't ready to have a child. B told me the last time I saw her that her marriage was on the verge of a divorce and the child has saved the marriage. She claimed that she has accepted facts that her husband is like that and will never change. She doesn't want anyone meddling in her affairs with her husband.

C. Classic tragedy.

1. Boy was only 4 years old. He drowned when the family of four went to a condo gathering. Went into a coma after they saved him and died in his coma. This pain will live forever as you live this lifetime.
2. Advice? Never leave your children unattended. You never know what's going to happen next.
3. Extra advice? Don't have children. Whatever happens, the impact is going to affect you sooner or later.

So sad. That makes me think whether my life is on the upper storey or the lower ranks.