Just some general ramblings
I have been sitting here thinking about things lately...nothing in general...Just random incoherent thoughts that just seem to sit around and stew in my head while I am at the mind numbing task of work.
Lately I have been reading a lot of friends journals about how they are losing friends and who are real friends and this that and the other.....
Life people, this is what it is about. If you don't allow each other to grow...you will...grow apart. This is what happens in life anyway. You think that you have a friend for life. But ultimatly, what ends up happening. Is that the friend that you have for life, they begin with their own life adventure.
Some things that they do along the way, you may not agree with. But perhaps this would be one of the events that will shape the future for you, or your friend. For a person to be so quick as to dump or throw a friendship away because life has interjected some sort of turmoil into your life, probably means you weren't much of a friend.
A real friend would sit and talk out the problem. Then analyze the situation and determine whether you are not going to change things and that you can live with this change....or....Whether you can't, learn to forgive and step away.
I have friends...Life Long friends, but because of the events of life, we do not see each other every day, the way it "used" to be. But anytime I need someone to talk to, I know that I can call these people and they will be there for me.
Events that happen now, will shape the way for things to come. Keep that in mind. The decisions that you make today, define your tomorrow.
If friends are true friends...Through hellfire and brimstone that friendship will survive. Trust me on this. I am older than a lot of you that read my journal, I have been through some rough stuff, and this advice is life experience people. You think you know everything when you are 18-19-20 years old, but in reality, everything you think you know today, could all change tomorrow.
Even at 30ish, I still find everyday that everything that I though I knew, I didn't.
We are here to live. We are here to teach our children. That is what the meaning of life is....I think I figured at least that much out.
We are here to bring into this world....life. To teach....to learn and to grow. To continue the life cycle. That to me, is the meaning of life....Children.
Everyday, I see my kids face the challenges of the world of tomorrow. Everyday, I think about tomorrow. Generally, I do not think of my tomorrow, but Hunter and Ashleys. The decisions that I make, will help shape and grow their lives. Lets face it, my parents did that for me, their parents for them and so on, and so on, and so on.
So, the people that you surround yourself with today, WILL have influence on their and your tomorrows.
I promise...Something about wrestling soon, I just felt that this was a bit important to get out there, hopefully it will influence you in some way..
Levi Blue