The "Maybe He's Intimidated by Me" Excuse...
*please refer to my subject line.*
okay guys... girls... does this sound familar?
it does to me because this is my super over used excuse for guys about why they stop calling me...
stop making excuses for these guys ladies. "he's just not that into you"
so i'm reading this amazing book thanks to Adrianna. it's so totally awesome. it's called... "he's just not that into you" by: greg behrendt and liz tuccillo. it's a book about all the lines a guy has ever used to try and stray away from a relationship. all the excuses and all the actions guys take in order to "keep the relationship friendly". the awesome thing about this book is that i've known this all along and yet i shove my gut feelings into the back of my mind because of what i'm feeling in my mind. i really like the guys that i've spend my time on. i don't normally make it that far but i don't pursue anything unless i like them. they get the idea if i'm just not into them.
but the point is, is that this book should be read by every girl. i now feel 100 percent confident in being in these situations and how to deal with them.
if a guy really does like me he will pursue it. if a guy really liked me he would find time in his so called "busy day" to make a phone call just to let me know that he's thinking about me. if a guy really liked me he would call me and ask to hang out and if a guy doesnt call me when he says he will that is a sign that obviously if you forgot to call me that your "not that into me." i don't care how busy you were.
after reading only half of this book i feel like i can conqueor any situation and not have hard feelings. thats okay that your not into me... i'm not hurt because it gives me hope that i can now read the actions and the words of a guy without sitting in bed at night wondering if something is worth getting worked up over. it's not. this book answered so many ?'s i had in my heart and it made me feel like 100 percent better because i can save myself from the hurt of "oh my gosh he hasnt called me in a week".. well guess what babe... "he's just not that into you". it's like now i have all this information i can know the answer to the Question: does he even like me? without asking him. actions speak way louder than words and i've also learned how to tell if a guy likes you from his words... for instance...
"i don't want to ruin what we might have in the future"
here's my answer and what i learned from the book... that could be true... but if you don't call me you are going to ruin what we could have in the future. if you want this future relationship then make an effort now by trying to get to know me more and asking me to hang out more. because i already know that i like you but guys being there confusing self need to just stop trying to cut around the real answer... it's okay if you don't like me. i can find someone new because there is someone out there who will pursue me because he thinks i'm amazing. cause i am and i should be treated like i'm amazing not like i'm just there when you want me.
so there it is... i have always wanted to be differnt and now i am because i'm not afraid of the truth. someone out there is just waiting for me. i'm not saying i won't make an effort but i'm amazing and guys will pursue me... i have everything and more to offer.
so i'm reading this amazing book thanks to Adrianna. it's so totally awesome. it's called... "he's just not that into you" by: greg behrendt and liz tuccillo. it's a book about all the lines a guy has ever used to try and stray away from a relationship. all the excuses and all the actions guys take in order to "keep the relationship friendly". the awesome thing about this book is that i've known this all along and yet i shove my gut feelings into the back of my mind because of what i'm feeling in my mind. i really like the guys that i've spend my time on. i don't normally make it that far but i don't pursue anything unless i like them. they get the idea if i'm just not into them.
but the point is, is that this book should be read by every girl. i now feel 100 percent confident in being in these situations and how to deal with them.
if a guy really does like me he will pursue it. if a guy really liked me he would find time in his so called "busy day" to make a phone call just to let me know that he's thinking about me. if a guy really liked me he would call me and ask to hang out and if a guy doesnt call me when he says he will that is a sign that obviously if you forgot to call me that your "not that into me." i don't care how busy you were.
after reading only half of this book i feel like i can conqueor any situation and not have hard feelings. thats okay that your not into me... i'm not hurt because it gives me hope that i can now read the actions and the words of a guy without sitting in bed at night wondering if something is worth getting worked up over. it's not. this book answered so many ?'s i had in my heart and it made me feel like 100 percent better because i can save myself from the hurt of "oh my gosh he hasnt called me in a week".. well guess what babe... "he's just not that into you". it's like now i have all this information i can know the answer to the Question: does he even like me? without asking him. actions speak way louder than words and i've also learned how to tell if a guy likes you from his words... for instance...
"i don't want to ruin what we might have in the future"
here's my answer and what i learned from the book... that could be true... but if you don't call me you are going to ruin what we could have in the future. if you want this future relationship then make an effort now by trying to get to know me more and asking me to hang out more. because i already know that i like you but guys being there confusing self need to just stop trying to cut around the real answer... it's okay if you don't like me. i can find someone new because there is someone out there who will pursue me because he thinks i'm amazing. cause i am and i should be treated like i'm amazing not like i'm just there when you want me.
so there it is... i have always wanted to be differnt and now i am because i'm not afraid of the truth. someone out there is just waiting for me. i'm not saying i won't make an effort but i'm amazing and guys will pursue me... i have everything and more to offer.