Invisible

[lestatslover]

Man!!! What's wrong with certain people???!!!! I mean I do nice things for them, I say nice things, comfort them, whatever is needed right, and what do I get if I need all that? NOTHING! I mean I tried not to let it get to me..I try to think.."okay, you shouldn't expect anything in return..just be nice..take comfort that you helped someone or

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[kuronekokoujo]

Not everyone is as good about giving advice as you can be ^_^ A lot of people feel uncomfortable doing it...they feel they'll give bad advice or make you feel worse. Sometimes they may not have any advice to give because they don't feel like they know the situation well enough, or have never been in a similar ones themselves. Sometimes they just might not know what to say. Sometimes people get uncomfortable in situations like that. Just cuz other people aren't always strong enough to help others in need, doesn't mean they don't appretiate what other people do for them. So, even though you're helpful to others, they will not always be helpful in return...and it doesn't mean they think you were not helpful or that they take you for granted.

Keep in mind that when helping people, the favor will not always be returned...that's why it's called helping people! ^_^ Part of helping others is selflessnes...doing something without expecting anything in return. I know that it's not so much that with your situation, as much as it is that you just feel like you need some good advice, but just because you can't find it, doesn't mean people don't care ^_^ It doesn't mean people aren't willing to give it to you, maybe they just...can't.

[lestatslover]

Hey..sorry it took so long for me to respond..not always do I take so long. The next 7 days I'll have pleeennttyy of time and you know why ^_~ Okay..I uderstan what your saying and it's true. Just sometimes it's hard you know? Being selfless is hard sometimes. I know that your not supposed to expect anything back..and I don't it's just sometimes when your going through something and continue to do so it's tough not to have any type of response and not want to be comforted. Maybe not given advice but some kind of comfort.. I think that's normal right? Also what got on me was when I do to others not always will they acknowlege that I've done so. Yet that goes with what you said as well, not expecting anything in return. Like I've been told though..on good authority that I'm a nurturer(sp) and fixer a helper. And after I was told that I looked back and thought..yep this persons right..especially in a current situation. I guess that entry didn't come out exactly how I wanted it to.