jesus. I can't imagine trying to deal with this/make these decisions right now. I admire so much what you're diong. That's just crazy. I hope it all works out.. I'm sure somehow the universe will make it possible for all of your wants and needs to be available to you.
WOW! That's all I can really think to say. I'm so stunned...this is your baby and his parents don't seem to care about your feelings....ugg it makes me a little up-set...all i can really say is sorry! I love you and I know you will make the right decision.
Leslie my dear... I know that this is a hard one and I feel deeply for you, and I being on the other end of the "adopted" I hope that my input can help you a little on what to do... First of all I know that I wish that I could have an open adoption with my birtparents. My birth mom didn't even want to see me when I was born. She thought that it would be too hard to part with me. Understandable. On the other hand my little sister was fortunate enough to "meet" her birth mom when she was born and even has pictures with her. Am I jealous. Not at all. For my sister that was probably the best thing. So weather or not it will hurt Max... That is questionable! It has had no impact on my life or made it any worse. Where it has made all of the difference in my sisters. Seeing how she does not fit-in in our trio of girls. So I feel that if you would like to have an open relationship with Gabrielle then you should. Because that could make all of the difference in his life, where as if you don't it could break him.
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