controling people
ok,
lemme first start off bye saying that im sitting at home here tnight talking with a friend and desided i needed to type this up now becuase other wise i wouldnt knwo what i was thinking tnight tmarrow after work.
we were talking about people being controled bye family/loved ones. i cant stand it. its one of the reasons i left cali is because my mom and step dad were trying to conrole me too much and it was getting on my nerves.
lets go to parents shall we? they need to stop trying to conrole their kids lifes after the age of 18. were leagly adults now and if you dont like that, well then, thats to bloody bad. if some one wants to go some where then let them go. like for example, a fox freind of mine in NY was gunna come down and spend thanksgiving with me from thursday till sunday. i was looking foward to it cause he was gunna look for a job out here so he could move to this state. but now tday he told me that he cant come out any more becuase and i quote "my parents are MAKING me go with them to a family thanksgiving dinner". it bothers me, and no im not saying to juss let them go do what they want. i have no problem with them asking for a name addy and phone number they can reach their kid at juss in case as if i were in their shoes id most likely do that exact thing.
yea im typing this cause im angry and sad at the same time but who wouldnt be? ive been here for about 9 months now and ive been living bye my self that whole time with few visiters so wen some one says their gunna come visit i get excited and eager at the fact that i not only get to meet some one for the first time but that i also will have some company for a few days. then wen yer told that they are no longer coming out...well you get the idea.
also another example, a wolf freind of mine. his "bro" (furry bro) seems to be trying to conrole him now. if their both on at the same time and my friend is in irc chatting with others while at the same time chatting with his bro, his bro get all pissy about it. my freind would like to move out here to colorado and in with me but if his bro found out he was gunna do this for sure, 100% it was gunna happen, he would get all pissy again but proly even more so.
so i guess what im trying to say is that 1) parents/loved ones need to stop trying to controle us and 2) if yer mate is trying to conrole you, dont let them.
so yea im done complaining now...oh and btw, if some of this makes no sence what so ever gimme a break. its 1O3O at night, im tired, running on little sleep and still trying to get used to being up at 63O in the morning compaired to 11 am-1 pm like i used to.
leppy
lemme first start off bye saying that im sitting at home here tnight talking with a friend and desided i needed to type this up now becuase other wise i wouldnt knwo what i was thinking tnight tmarrow after work.
we were talking about people being controled bye family/loved ones. i cant stand it. its one of the reasons i left cali is because my mom and step dad were trying to conrole me too much and it was getting on my nerves.
lets go to parents shall we? they need to stop trying to conrole their kids lifes after the age of 18. were leagly adults now and if you dont like that, well then, thats to bloody bad. if some one wants to go some where then let them go. like for example, a fox freind of mine in NY was gunna come down and spend thanksgiving with me from thursday till sunday. i was looking foward to it cause he was gunna look for a job out here so he could move to this state. but now tday he told me that he cant come out any more becuase and i quote "my parents are MAKING me go with them to a family thanksgiving dinner". it bothers me, and no im not saying to juss let them go do what they want. i have no problem with them asking for a name addy and phone number they can reach their kid at juss in case as if i were in their shoes id most likely do that exact thing.
yea im typing this cause im angry and sad at the same time but who wouldnt be? ive been here for about 9 months now and ive been living bye my self that whole time with few visiters so wen some one says their gunna come visit i get excited and eager at the fact that i not only get to meet some one for the first time but that i also will have some company for a few days. then wen yer told that they are no longer coming out...well you get the idea.
also another example, a wolf freind of mine. his "bro" (furry bro) seems to be trying to conrole him now. if their both on at the same time and my friend is in irc chatting with others while at the same time chatting with his bro, his bro get all pissy about it. my freind would like to move out here to colorado and in with me but if his bro found out he was gunna do this for sure, 100% it was gunna happen, he would get all pissy again but proly even more so.
so i guess what im trying to say is that 1) parents/loved ones need to stop trying to controle us and 2) if yer mate is trying to conrole you, dont let them.
so yea im done complaining now...oh and btw, if some of this makes no sence what so ever gimme a break. its 1O3O at night, im tired, running on little sleep and still trying to get used to being up at 63O in the morning compaired to 11 am-1 pm like i used to.
leppy