drank too much too fast...
... so I'm feeling a little truthsome.
Over the last few weeks I've realized something about myself, specifically relating to me in relationships. I tend to have a stressful life, and so relationships to me need to be a comfort rather than added stress. Granted, my tolerance for stress is pretty high, which is why the last couple of long-term relationships I had lasted as long as they did. But the bottom line is that if there's more stress than comfort, it's not going to last.
More specifically though, recently I realized that it applies to friendships too, at least to a degree. The friendship is going to mean a great deal less to me if it's more stress than comfort. (It was really painfoul comiing to terms with that, actually.)
Anyway, I should go sleep this off.
Over the last few weeks I've realized something about myself, specifically relating to me in relationships. I tend to have a stressful life, and so relationships to me need to be a comfort rather than added stress. Granted, my tolerance for stress is pretty high, which is why the last couple of long-term relationships I had lasted as long as they did. But the bottom line is that if there's more stress than comfort, it's not going to last.
More specifically though, recently I realized that it applies to friendships too, at least to a degree. The friendship is going to mean a great deal less to me if it's more stress than comfort. (It was really painfoul comiing to terms with that, actually.)
Anyway, I should go sleep this off.