Can anyone help me understand?
Over the past few days many things have been lingering in my head and I have become utterly confused about what to do. How do you know if it is meant to be? I continue getting mixed feelings and they only seem to confuse me more, I don't know where to go? Guys have the ability to say the sweetest and most perfect things at just the right moment and it makes you want to stay in the frame of time for eternity. But do they really mean it? I meant if something feels right then how can the timing be off? And if the timing is off, what are you supposed to do in the mean time? I know that if it is meant to be then it will happen but when, and how long is too long to wait, or even are you supposed to wait? Why are things so different behind closed doors when everyone knows the truth? It does not help when you constantly hear about how cute you look together or you two are meant to be. Fate is going to take its course but there must be something that you can do to help move it along. It is true that if something is meant to be, it will be. But you own actions are the cause of what will be. So fight for what you want. Shape your destiny, and you'll be destined accordingly.
Another thing that can add to my confusion is alcohol? I know that it is the stereotypical idea for college students to drink every night, but I do not get it. Whatever happened to sitting around with a non-alcoholic drink and enjoying yourself just as much as you would with an alcoholic drink? Why does it seem like alcohol needs to be involved everywhere you go? I miss dinner and a movie nights, playing charades till early hours in the morning, and having fun without alcohol. It does not seem like that is possible while you are at college. Don't get me wrong I am not against drinking in any way but I don't see the need for it every night? Can anyone help me out please?
Another thing that can add to my confusion is alcohol? I know that it is the stereotypical idea for college students to drink every night, but I do not get it. Whatever happened to sitting around with a non-alcoholic drink and enjoying yourself just as much as you would with an alcoholic drink? Why does it seem like alcohol needs to be involved everywhere you go? I miss dinner and a movie nights, playing charades till early hours in the morning, and having fun without alcohol. It does not seem like that is possible while you are at college. Don't get me wrong I am not against drinking in any way but I don't see the need for it every night? Can anyone help me out please?