You don't. I hated it at first, and like the rest of America, thought my cable went out, but now that I have had time to soak it in, I absolutely love it. There was so much shit going on in that last scene that I was nearly shaking with anticipation. Never has a show or movie had me on the edge of my seat thinking "Oooooooooh shit, here it comes, here it COMES!!!"
Final 20 seconds to the Sopranos tense last scene.
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Tense scene, Journey's "Don't Stop Believin" playing in background, rough cut, blackness for 20 seconds, credits. Awesome.