indefinite hiatus.
43 minutes away from the new year and I have to admit 2009 was amazing for me.
it had no shortage of hardships but i still smiled because i had an amazing girl by my side. if not in person (which happened rarely), then always, always in spirit. she promised that we would be together forever. i believed her, trusted her more than anyone. i gave her all of me, i gave her everything i could. like the characters we loved so much, lelouch and suzaku, there wasn't anything we couldn't do together. nothing we couldn't fight, nothing we couldn't face.
two weeks ago, my world started to cave in. it collapsed on me completely two days ago, on the one year anniversary of the day we met, when i found out that she had cheated on me.
my soul, my being, my heart, my everything - completely destroyed. the last two weeks have been horrific for me.
we had everything in common, which is going to make it extremely difficult for me to move on. that's why i'm telling you this - not that i think you care, but to explain that i may not be around much in the future, if at all.
i can't look at my collection of figures and plush or listen to any song in the entire bon jovi catalogue (including the hilariously bad ones like 'unbreakable,' we giggled over them together) or even thread a needle without thinking of her, without curling up on the couch under my new favorite blanket and crying and just going numb.
i don't want to stop cosplaying or enjoying anime. i just need to step away and hopefully find new fandoms. when i hopefully do, i plan to return.
i will probably continue to check this account occasionally to see what the rest of you are up to, but you probably won't hear much from me. if you want to better keep in touch, PM me with your preferred method of contact and we'll exchange information. i don't wish to lose anyone else. if you would rather be rid of me, take this as your opportunity to take me off your friends list. i won't be offended and i wish you the best.
i hope to be back, to return to fandom and cosplay and the world i love soon enough. it's just that right now, the things i love are like knives in my back.
i hope to one day be back, and that, like lelouch and suzaku, we will one day find our paths crossing in love and friendship again.
it had no shortage of hardships but i still smiled because i had an amazing girl by my side. if not in person (which happened rarely), then always, always in spirit. she promised that we would be together forever. i believed her, trusted her more than anyone. i gave her all of me, i gave her everything i could. like the characters we loved so much, lelouch and suzaku, there wasn't anything we couldn't do together. nothing we couldn't fight, nothing we couldn't face.
two weeks ago, my world started to cave in. it collapsed on me completely two days ago, on the one year anniversary of the day we met, when i found out that she had cheated on me.
my soul, my being, my heart, my everything - completely destroyed. the last two weeks have been horrific for me.
we had everything in common, which is going to make it extremely difficult for me to move on. that's why i'm telling you this - not that i think you care, but to explain that i may not be around much in the future, if at all.
i can't look at my collection of figures and plush or listen to any song in the entire bon jovi catalogue (including the hilariously bad ones like 'unbreakable,' we giggled over them together) or even thread a needle without thinking of her, without curling up on the couch under my new favorite blanket and crying and just going numb.
i don't want to stop cosplaying or enjoying anime. i just need to step away and hopefully find new fandoms. when i hopefully do, i plan to return.
i will probably continue to check this account occasionally to see what the rest of you are up to, but you probably won't hear much from me. if you want to better keep in touch, PM me with your preferred method of contact and we'll exchange information. i don't wish to lose anyone else. if you would rather be rid of me, take this as your opportunity to take me off your friends list. i won't be offended and i wish you the best.
i hope to be back, to return to fandom and cosplay and the world i love soon enough. it's just that right now, the things i love are like knives in my back.
i hope to one day be back, and that, like lelouch and suzaku, we will one day find our paths crossing in love and friendship again.