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ok so this ex of mine is driving me crazy. says hes ok with the fact i want to marry the current guy but obviously isnt. so i try to get along with him cause i like him and he is a good friend and i like goofing with him.
and i say, so we should go to an amusement part sometime.
"i dont want to piss anyone off"
"trust me, justin doesnt feel that way, he is the least jealous guy ever."
"well, its not that, i just wouldnt be able to control myself."
so he says things like that and then says its joking and i say i think he crossed a line and he says "look you are all riled up, i love doing that to you. nooone can mess with your mind like i can"
what the hell? whats that supposed to mean? jesus!! shesh.
*sigh* i dont get it. why now? why the animosity towards me? he walked, both times. its not my fault if that was a mistake. (though, i must say, thank god he walked, justin is so way cooler for me that he could ever be). argh. guys like him suck.
so sarah says again that her life would be easier if she was a lesbian. i try to explain to her that if she feels that way than she is feeding into stereotypes, because girls are one thing guys are another. so not true. best example, justin. blurs the lines, never know what you should call him, he has so many "girl" qualities that the girl from "kissing jessica stein" wanted, but is so a man. what then? i tried to explain that people are people, and girls are as complicated as guys, and darnit, in a relationship, each person is their own entity, dont put stereotypes on them, they arent a guy or a girl they are a person. and there its not easier to get to know either guys or girls, just some PEOPLE. people, persons. not stereotypes. dammit.
and i say, so we should go to an amusement part sometime.
"i dont want to piss anyone off"
"trust me, justin doesnt feel that way, he is the least jealous guy ever."
"well, its not that, i just wouldnt be able to control myself."
so he says things like that and then says its joking and i say i think he crossed a line and he says "look you are all riled up, i love doing that to you. nooone can mess with your mind like i can"
what the hell? whats that supposed to mean? jesus!! shesh.
*sigh* i dont get it. why now? why the animosity towards me? he walked, both times. its not my fault if that was a mistake. (though, i must say, thank god he walked, justin is so way cooler for me that he could ever be). argh. guys like him suck.
so sarah says again that her life would be easier if she was a lesbian. i try to explain to her that if she feels that way than she is feeding into stereotypes, because girls are one thing guys are another. so not true. best example, justin. blurs the lines, never know what you should call him, he has so many "girl" qualities that the girl from "kissing jessica stein" wanted, but is so a man. what then? i tried to explain that people are people, and girls are as complicated as guys, and darnit, in a relationship, each person is their own entity, dont put stereotypes on them, they arent a guy or a girl they are a person. and there its not easier to get to know either guys or girls, just some PEOPLE. people, persons. not stereotypes. dammit.