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i was just reading salvets journal about the "asshole theory" as he so called it.
im bored and i feel like writing about it, so i will.
i already posted a comment about it on his journal but whatever i want to put it here too haha.
while i will admit that some girls do go for asshole guys, i dont think it applies to all of them because i have definately seen girls go for non-assholes.
i think the "asshole theory" is more of a way for guys to place the blame on the females themselves for their lack of a companion.
i mean come on its alot easier to say:
"i dont have a girlfriend because im a nice guy and girls only like assholes"
than it is to say:
"i dont have a girlfriend because noone likes me/im not going about it the right way at all/i have no skills"
i know this, because i have done it. and still do on occasion.
do not disagree with me men, you know its partially true.
however i would be lying if i said that girls never go out with assholes. quite the contrary, alot of times they do.
now im not claiming to KNOW why, but im going to make an educated guess. well its not really educated because i really cant say i know too much about how the female mind works. but here it is anyway.
girls don't know what they want. they seem to be born lacking the skill to determine what they actually want. this is applicable to all females.
asshole guys are pushy, and we know this. i believe that they, being the assholish parasites that they are, use the females natural uncertainty of their own wants and needs to their advantage. they tell them what they want to hear and bla bla and theyre pushy about it. so in turn the girl will give in and go out with the asshole. because he was persistant.
i mean come on youve all heard some dick of a guy at one point or another feeding lines of complete bull shit to a girl in an attempt to get her to like him. or as is the case with most assholes, to just "get with her".
oh how i loathe that phrase.
anyway, that was me ranting, i really have no idea what im talking about but i wanted to update my lj.
oh well, i was always told the best way to find a good girl is to just be yourself, because if they like you for YOU then it will be good.
im not pushy, at least i dont think i am, nor do i claim to have any form of skill in the area of females whatsoever. in fact im rather akward and bad at it. maybe in time i'll get better at it, possibly haha. i doubt however that i will ever become pushy in any way.
i am what i am though.
and id rather be Nick Fiore and alone than somone else with somone.
i think, probably.
im bored and i feel like writing about it, so i will.
i already posted a comment about it on his journal but whatever i want to put it here too haha.
while i will admit that some girls do go for asshole guys, i dont think it applies to all of them because i have definately seen girls go for non-assholes.
i think the "asshole theory" is more of a way for guys to place the blame on the females themselves for their lack of a companion.
i mean come on its alot easier to say:
"i dont have a girlfriend because im a nice guy and girls only like assholes"
than it is to say:
"i dont have a girlfriend because noone likes me/im not going about it the right way at all/i have no skills"
i know this, because i have done it. and still do on occasion.
do not disagree with me men, you know its partially true.
however i would be lying if i said that girls never go out with assholes. quite the contrary, alot of times they do.
now im not claiming to KNOW why, but im going to make an educated guess. well its not really educated because i really cant say i know too much about how the female mind works. but here it is anyway.
girls don't know what they want. they seem to be born lacking the skill to determine what they actually want. this is applicable to all females.
asshole guys are pushy, and we know this. i believe that they, being the assholish parasites that they are, use the females natural uncertainty of their own wants and needs to their advantage. they tell them what they want to hear and bla bla and theyre pushy about it. so in turn the girl will give in and go out with the asshole. because he was persistant.
i mean come on youve all heard some dick of a guy at one point or another feeding lines of complete bull shit to a girl in an attempt to get her to like him. or as is the case with most assholes, to just "get with her".
oh how i loathe that phrase.
anyway, that was me ranting, i really have no idea what im talking about but i wanted to update my lj.
oh well, i was always told the best way to find a good girl is to just be yourself, because if they like you for YOU then it will be good.
im not pushy, at least i dont think i am, nor do i claim to have any form of skill in the area of females whatsoever. in fact im rather akward and bad at it. maybe in time i'll get better at it, possibly haha. i doubt however that i will ever become pushy in any way.
i am what i am though.
and id rather be Nick Fiore and alone than somone else with somone.
i think, probably.