PAY ATTENTION GUYS THIS IS YOUR HEADS-UP
ATTENTION: TO ALL MALES
After deliberating with a few girl friends of mine, I have made some conclusions that the male species should be aware of. But aren't. Consider this me giving you a sneak preview.... You're welcome.
- Girls want ROMANCE! I don't care how long you've been dating or if your relationship is going great or if she says she's not the "romantic type"... all girls want their guy to do something special and unexpected for them. Even if you're not the romantic type, if you truly cared for her, wouldn't you sacrifice doing something that makes you unconfortable to make her happy??? Do something for her! Cook her dinner, bring her flowers for no reason, write her a song, or even take the lazy route and buy her a friggin halmark card and sign your name! Really fellas, you are getting pathetic in this field. Girls love being able to brag about something sweet their boyfriend did for them.
- Stop thinking with the wrong head. We understand you have a penis and that you let it control you and no, that's not okay. If you're trying to get a girl to do something for you and she's resisting... NEWS FLASH: she's not playing hard to get. She flat-out does not want to, so stop trying. If she ends up doing w/e it was you wanted, it's because she gave in to get you to shutup. That's not right. If a girl really wanted you, trust me, she'd let you know.
- If you are close friends with a girl, and she actually gets the balls to confess her feelings for you, don't shun her or start blocking her out of your life. We can accept rejection. It may hurt, but losing the friendship hurts more.
- There is such a thing as moving too fast and yes, it does cause problems even if they aren't discussed.
- Don't lie if we ask you if you are happy in the relationship or not. Relationships are a two-way thing. If you're not happy, you can't fix it on your own. We'd rather know and find a way to work it out than have you pretending.
- Never say you'll call then don't. We do anticipate hearing from you and it hurts like crazy when you forget.
- Don't make us your life. Girls are human and will mess up. And so will you. If you are attached, and that person disappoints you somehow, you will be crushed... and that's the creation of another emo kid none of us need.
- Never get so comfortable that all your manners and gentleman ideals fly out the window. It doesn't matter how long you've been together, things like opening doors say a lot and go a long way.
- ANNIVERSARIES SHOULD BE CELEBRATED. Period. Yes, simply being together is the most important part... but an anniversary is the perfect excuse to exemplify how much you care for her. This is where the romance is supposed to come in guys!!! Take the opportunity to make her that much happier being with you! If you are with a girl for 6 months and don't get her anything... that's really crappy, not to mention pretty stupid on your part. Some girls tend to associate how you celebrate the anniversary with how you feel about the relationship. Watch out for that one.
Alright guys, I suggest taking this to heart. We don't work/think the same as you so remember this next time she seems upset about something for no reason.