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My trip was sad and beautiful all the same. Went to the cemetary with my Mom to my father's grave. I left crying more because 25 years later my Mom is still so sad and hasn't fully let go :( Spent quality days with my Grandma, bless her sweet older self. Was pampered by a long time friend who cut and colored my hair, thanks Michelle.
My trauma occurred the day of travel when I was informed that the woman who was watching the boys while Dave was at work had cut my childrens hair all off without my permission. Fucking freak. I have gone to the police station and filed a report and I best not ever cross her path because I could become violent. Yes, the hair will grow back, but Soul's hair had never been cut since he was a baby (except for his bangs) he had ringlet curls down his back 8 inches long. I am the most pissed because she had no liberty to cut my children's hair without my permission and since I am back realize it was her plan because she didn't like that my children had long hair. The nerve. Words cannot express the feelings of violation I am feeling.
A hard lesson, you really don't know people until many years pass. I have known this lady for a year and never thought or saw her possesiveness over my children, her disregard for my authority as a parent and oh I can keep going and going. She better stay away from all of us or I will call the police on her ass.
I am realizing I truley have one major friend who is really there for me no matter what and is invested in most all my emotions and situations. Thank the great universe for that relationship, I would be at a great loss without her.
I need to get back into the season and start getting all my cards written and out in the mail. We decorated our Norfolk Pine yesterday. She is a sweet little tree I purchased 2 years ago for $1 and is now starting to grow into a big beauty.
Festive!!! Festive!!! Festive!!!
My trauma occurred the day of travel when I was informed that the woman who was watching the boys while Dave was at work had cut my childrens hair all off without my permission. Fucking freak. I have gone to the police station and filed a report and I best not ever cross her path because I could become violent. Yes, the hair will grow back, but Soul's hair had never been cut since he was a baby (except for his bangs) he had ringlet curls down his back 8 inches long. I am the most pissed because she had no liberty to cut my children's hair without my permission and since I am back realize it was her plan because she didn't like that my children had long hair. The nerve. Words cannot express the feelings of violation I am feeling.
A hard lesson, you really don't know people until many years pass. I have known this lady for a year and never thought or saw her possesiveness over my children, her disregard for my authority as a parent and oh I can keep going and going. She better stay away from all of us or I will call the police on her ass.
I am realizing I truley have one major friend who is really there for me no matter what and is invested in most all my emotions and situations. Thank the great universe for that relationship, I would be at a great loss without her.
I need to get back into the season and start getting all my cards written and out in the mail. We decorated our Norfolk Pine yesterday. She is a sweet little tree I purchased 2 years ago for $1 and is now starting to grow into a big beauty.
Festive!!! Festive!!! Festive!!!