I'm very disturbed by the concept of "marriage" that has been ingrained in me from my real life observations and the media.
My mom thinks it is very common for Men to go astray, and the wife to stay at home and accept the circumstances.
My mom says that it doesn't matter if your husband cheats, as long you dont make such a fuss about it cuz he'll still come home to you in the end. Just don't have too many kids, you're the only one at the losing end.
Women lose to men in a marriage. They have much more to lose.
The older the men grow, the more appealing they get.
The older the women get, the less infertile and sexually appealing they get.
My mom says the only consolation a woman gets after a failed marriage is $$$$$$$$$.
I'm very disturbed, appalled.
So what now, infidelity is no big deal now? Clinton does it, Jackie Chan does it, Tiger Woods, John Terry, now Jack Neo, famous Singapore filmmaker, and countless other ordinary men in ordinary families do it.
My uncle does it! My mom's sort-of-boy friend does it! My facilitator does it and so blatently announces it to us! "Oh yeah, I'm sure I have kids elsewhere, but my wife turns a blind eye to it." Still, they stayed with their families in the end, because
1) Wife is FIERCE, be very afraid. Stop your infidelity now or you'll suffer.
2) Wife is accepting and turns a blind eye towards it because she loves her husband too much.
WHAT . MARRIAGE IS SO TWISTED I CAN NO LONGER SEE THE SANCTIMONY IN IT. PLS TELL ME YOUR VIEWS, if you believe marriage is like sunshine, rainbows and kitties frolicking in autumn leaves, convince me otherwise. I've been living in a household when I see infidelity come and go like an oh-so-not-surprising event.
80% of my close friends are living with their moms with an absentee FATHER. I dont know, it seems like people like us attract one another like flies to lampposts but I love my dad cuz he's different and I do take advantage of that very well *SLY GRIN* starting with the fact that I want my dad to drive me home from work. *EVIL*
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on a side note, I have a revelation as to why straight women like this :
THIS :
You want to know why? It's BECAUSE. We, females are sick and tired of being seen as the weak and submissive, among other stereotypes of what we should or should not be. Hence we enjoy the equality and balance that same-sex couple brings. Not to say either party won't cheat on each other in the end, hahaha. but at least when they do, it's HOT. :P oh my god, I know I'm horrible, I know I have double standards, I can't help it can I???! wahahahah.
and so sad that Mark Cornelson and TR Knight have broken up ages ago. bleagh. I know you want to see more of their cuteness, I know you do. That why's the cut below.
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