How to Make a Girl Feel Special

Sep 22, 2006 23:38

This is an awesome list a friend of mine put together -- I revised her version slightly, but I decided to try and spread the word. here it is:

How to Make a Girl Feel Special

1. Tell her she's beautiful.

2. Hold her hand at any moment even if its just for a second.

3. Hug her from behind.

4. Leave her voice messages to wake up to.

5. Wrestle with her :)

6. Don't go hang out with your ex when she's not with you; you might not realize how badly it hurts her.

7. If you're talking to another girl, when you're done talking walk over and hug and kiss her....let her know she's yours and they aren't.

8. Write her notes or call her just to say "hi."

9. Introduce her to your friends...as your girlfriend.

10. Play with her hair.

11. Pick her up (she loves it).

12. Get upset if another guy touches her and she doesn't like it.

13. MAKE HER LAUGH (can't emphasize this enough).

14. Let her fall asleep in your arms.

15. If she's mad at you, kiss her.

16. If you care about her, then tell her.

17. Every guy should give their girl three things:
  • A stuffed animal (she'll hug it every time she goes to sleep)
    Jewelry (she'll treasure it forever)
    One of his t-shirts (she'll most likely wear it to bed) or sweatshirts sprayed with his cologne! And flowers or something occasionally.

    18. Treat her the same around your friends as you do when you're alone.

    19. Look her in the eyes and smile.

    20. Hang out with her on the weekends.

    21. Kiss her in the rain (girls like this).

    22. Kiss her just for the heck of it.

    23. If you're listening to music, let her listen too. =)

    24. Remember her birthday and get her something, even if its simple and inexpensive, it came from you. It means all the world to her.

    25. When she gives you a present on your birthday, Christmas, or just whenever, take it and tell her you love it even if you don't (it'll make her happy).

    26. Always call her when you say you will -- it may not seem like it, but it does hurt her and makes her think you don't care. So call even if you can only talk for a minute. Girls don't necessarily have to have-hour long conversations every night, but it's nice for us to hear your voice even for a quick hello.

    27. Give her what she wants.

    28. Recognize the small things...they usually mean the most.

    29. DON'T hug her friends (or your female friends) without hugging/kissing her too 'cause she'll feel left out.

    30. Hang out with her whenever you're free.

    31. If you care about her...show her!

    32. Don't ever tell her you love her if you don't. You'll only end up breaking her heart.

    33. Bring yourself to tell her you love her; try hard to get over your commitment phobia if you have one. You don't have to be wanting to marry her to tell her you love her...you can just love her 'cause she's your girlfriend.

    34. If she hangs up on you, call her back and apologize even if you were right.

    35. Whisper, "I love you so much" in her ear...especially when she least expects it.

    36. DON'T do anything behind her back. She will find out sooner or later and it'll be hell.

    37. When she's sad, give her a shoulder to cry on and ask her if she wants to talk about it. Don't call her a baby.

    38. Sing her songs, even if you don't sing well. It'll make her smile.

    39. Appreciate her for her personality, not just her looks.

    40. If she's jealous, be with her and tell her all her positives. Tell her you'd never do anything to hurt her (only if you mean it).

    What a wonderful representation right? If I had a boyfriend, this is definitely how I'd want him to treat me. I wonder how many people are gonna see it; guys could definitely use a class in this lol. Oh, and I got my nails done again today...I just got the standard manicure again. I was considering a full set with the lume gel kind, but my mom flipped out (she threatened to stop paying my tuition if I got them, lol), so needless to say I threw that idea out the window. She just thinks they're too much to maintain, in terms of money. I think I'm gonna go to bed now, but I'll write again soon!

    ♥~The World is Yours~♥
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