Drunkenness?.....
So, here is goes: I am a shitty person, I have been well aware of this for quite some time now but recently I have had some extra time to screw people over and overanalyze my thoughts. So here goes what I have concluded from my week and so "vacation" from work:
1. Alcohol and Medication BAD- reasons why. There is a reason people are prescribed to medication and if such medication(s) say do not take with alcohol you should probably take the advice of the prescription bottle. If you don't the probability of blacking out and doing things that you might otherwise not do is very high.
2.Free Drinks- Now if someone is willing to buy YOU drinks all night there is probably an alterior motive ( I have been drinking, so if I can't spell well I don't really care, so ha) You in the end will have to give them something that they would like, because you wouldn't be taking these free drinks if you didn't like to drink in the first place.
3. Flirty Friends- Now I have been told, now, quite a few times that I am a tease. Me being a girl I have troubles figuring out after drinking what the difference is between being a tease and flirting. Then the other problem is taking the flirty, past teasing into something else. I mean really after an intense night of drinking to wake up naked next to one of your friends will forever be akward. Does the fact that you fucked make you fuck buddies or was is just one or two stupid nights? Its hard to define with a hangover which is probably why I am contemplating these things slightly inhebriated.
4. Your inhabitions are no more- Hell sometimes even when sober my inhabitions run a muck, but more so when drunk. I won't say that I haven't had fun with guys at bars, or taken guys home but I will say that I am a much more "friendly" of a person when I am drunk. And the funnier part is guys are much more "friendly" also, which tends to lead to well flirty friends who end up in bed.
5. Ex's- Not just your's but your friends. This is where I have been having a HUGE problem lately. Not that I think its bad(even though she would be pissed) its that we ARE keeping it a secret. It's like it naughty or something. This is how I see it; if the person you are about to mess around with is your ex, beware of commitment style emotions or conversations. Now if this person is your friends ex, stay the fuck away. This is an extreamly cautious area to go. Even if they say its ok, it really isn't. The Ex of a friend should always be off limits, even if you have had them before.
6. Last Point.....Arousal- Now this joins with all the rest of them. You will probably do what the person who is buying you drinks wants you to do, well for no other reason then you would like more free drinks and hell youre probably drunk anyway. Flirty friends just make it easier to hook up with someone. You're probably drunk as hell once you start feeling you want to get with someone, and standing up probably isn't the best answer so who do you go after? Uh huh, your flirty friend. Now that you are drunk, horny and flirting with a friend you start to make innuendos about things that friends probably shouldn't be venturing towards. This makes things harder when you are still friends with your or another friends ex because now you are in the ex-factor which is DANGER by all means. Now the most fun about all this is if you are on meds and have been drinking the probability is that you won't remember a thing, other then someone's in your bed and youre not sure what happened. Now since you don't remember how can you be blamed.
Ah hah, the way to get out of doing stupid shit while drunk. I think I have perfected these things. I have definatly led guys/friends/ex's on and have also gotten in trouble for doing so. I am just glad that my friends now are able to well keep me on the correct, more sensible path, then the one that I have just told you about.
Good luck, don't make my mistakes
Later
1. Alcohol and Medication BAD- reasons why. There is a reason people are prescribed to medication and if such medication(s) say do not take with alcohol you should probably take the advice of the prescription bottle. If you don't the probability of blacking out and doing things that you might otherwise not do is very high.
2.Free Drinks- Now if someone is willing to buy YOU drinks all night there is probably an alterior motive ( I have been drinking, so if I can't spell well I don't really care, so ha) You in the end will have to give them something that they would like, because you wouldn't be taking these free drinks if you didn't like to drink in the first place.
3. Flirty Friends- Now I have been told, now, quite a few times that I am a tease. Me being a girl I have troubles figuring out after drinking what the difference is between being a tease and flirting. Then the other problem is taking the flirty, past teasing into something else. I mean really after an intense night of drinking to wake up naked next to one of your friends will forever be akward. Does the fact that you fucked make you fuck buddies or was is just one or two stupid nights? Its hard to define with a hangover which is probably why I am contemplating these things slightly inhebriated.
4. Your inhabitions are no more- Hell sometimes even when sober my inhabitions run a muck, but more so when drunk. I won't say that I haven't had fun with guys at bars, or taken guys home but I will say that I am a much more "friendly" of a person when I am drunk. And the funnier part is guys are much more "friendly" also, which tends to lead to well flirty friends who end up in bed.
5. Ex's- Not just your's but your friends. This is where I have been having a HUGE problem lately. Not that I think its bad(even though she would be pissed) its that we ARE keeping it a secret. It's like it naughty or something. This is how I see it; if the person you are about to mess around with is your ex, beware of commitment style emotions or conversations. Now if this person is your friends ex, stay the fuck away. This is an extreamly cautious area to go. Even if they say its ok, it really isn't. The Ex of a friend should always be off limits, even if you have had them before.
6. Last Point.....Arousal- Now this joins with all the rest of them. You will probably do what the person who is buying you drinks wants you to do, well for no other reason then you would like more free drinks and hell youre probably drunk anyway. Flirty friends just make it easier to hook up with someone. You're probably drunk as hell once you start feeling you want to get with someone, and standing up probably isn't the best answer so who do you go after? Uh huh, your flirty friend. Now that you are drunk, horny and flirting with a friend you start to make innuendos about things that friends probably shouldn't be venturing towards. This makes things harder when you are still friends with your or another friends ex because now you are in the ex-factor which is DANGER by all means. Now the most fun about all this is if you are on meds and have been drinking the probability is that you won't remember a thing, other then someone's in your bed and youre not sure what happened. Now since you don't remember how can you be blamed.
Ah hah, the way to get out of doing stupid shit while drunk. I think I have perfected these things. I have definatly led guys/friends/ex's on and have also gotten in trouble for doing so. I am just glad that my friends now are able to well keep me on the correct, more sensible path, then the one that I have just told you about.
Good luck, don't make my mistakes
Later