There's nothing wrong with you. Kelly and I lived 250 miles apart for over a year. I never gave up hope of us being together, I came to see her at least twice a month when I could afford to do it. I would spend every last cent to see her.
And when I came to see her, I normally stayed with my friend Anthony here in SoBo, but she couldn't stay out longer than 12 or 1am. What time of privacy we had was too, in her car or mine.
When we were married, we moved here to SoBo and in with her parents. You can imagine what a fucked up mess it was trying to have 'time' with your wife when your father in-law is asleep in the next room. In a situation where they didn't want you to close the door all the way. The only time we had together privately was, again, in the car or in the house when everyone was at work, when I worked only weekends at the dollar general distribution center.
But we were patient and it worked out. Even though we still don't have nearly enough time to see each other as I could hope for due to our work schedules.
Relationships are a bitch to manage sometimes. It takes ALOT of patience.
omg, i couldn't imagine living with my parents just after being married.....what a mess it would be! lol i agree it's part of the sacrafices you make, to be happy in the long run. patience is definatly something i need to work on, im the kind of person that wanted it yesterday....yea im that bad. lol so i know what it takes to make a relationship work, but getting thru that process is the hard part. this is my first real relationship, so 2 years into it, im still learning. im glad it all worked out for you two! Thanks!
Kelly and I lived 250 miles apart for over a year.
I never gave up hope of us being together, I came to see her at least twice a month when I could afford to do it. I would spend every last cent to see her.
And when I came to see her, I normally stayed with my friend Anthony here in SoBo, but she couldn't stay out longer than 12 or 1am. What time of privacy we had was too, in her car or mine.
When we were married, we moved here to SoBo and in with her parents.
You can imagine what a fucked up mess it was trying to have 'time' with your wife when your father in-law is asleep in the next room.
In a situation where they didn't want you to close the door all the way.
The only time we had together privately was, again, in the car or in the house when everyone was at work, when I worked only weekends at the dollar general distribution center.
But we were patient and it worked out.
Even though we still don't have nearly enough time to see each other as I could hope for due to our work schedules.
Relationships are a bitch to manage sometimes.
It takes ALOT of patience.
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i agree it's part of the sacrafices you make, to be happy in the long run. patience is definatly something i need to work on, im the kind of person that wanted it yesterday....yea im that bad. lol so i know what it takes to make a relationship work, but getting thru that process is the hard part. this is my first real relationship, so 2 years into it, im still learning.
im glad it all worked out for you two! Thanks!
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