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[lavernkid]

Respect me. How? That's a good question. Because everyone has a different idea what respect is. No one is exactly right or wrong. There is a fine line we all cross in relationships, friendships, and family. What is the most appropriate way to say "Get well soon" and the gestures that go with it. When should people share or divulge important things about themself. How should you and how often should you do dishes if you live with other people? What is the appropriate way to show concern over a topic covering a person's wellfare? When should you call someone back? When do you accept pet-peaves of others and when do you confront them? How do you lend and borrow property of others? When is it appropriate to offer help and when to decline? How do you show concern without showing spite, hate, frustration, ignorance, or jealousy? These questions plague me. I wonder how much concideration they should be given. Then I know what frustrates me and hope that others will respect those things. But only through communication can that happen. But what if communcation is broken down, because of the attitude towards confrontation. Why can't we just be honest with ourselves and indulge in those conversations and arguments without the friction. I really want that from a handful of people and I have that with like two. I want to answer these questions, but I need feedback. I feel I am a very openminded human being. Maybe thats offputing, because I am just eager to learn about people and how they think. Sometimes that gets people angry and think I have some hidden agenda. I don't. I really love the people in my life. I love my friends and family.

Mind...decomposing...Argus

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