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Hmm, what is new with me? I threw my back out a couple weekends ago. Could barely move for amost a week and still don't know why.
Now for the rant.
Danny is once again not allowed to see the children, big suprise. This is how it went down this time. Went to his apartment to drop them off. Yes, found a ride, drove out there, carried the children, carseats, bag, and blankies up the stairs to the lazy ass' apartmet door. He states that he is going to cut thier hair. Sneers it as if that is the only logical thing to do to a mohawk. I tell him that if those are his plans then I will take them home as they are technically my children since I care for them, provide for them and worry about them 6 days a week rather then his 1 if he has time. We argue, of course. He says "would you rather I said I will leave it and bring them home bald anyways." Typical Danny statement. He then calls me a stupid bitch in front of the kids, says their hair looks dumb in front of them, says I am trying to make them into freaks like me, and brings up all kinds of off the wall shit that didn't have anything to do with the hair issue. All the while ignoring Seth trying to tell him that he asked for the mohawk and that he likes it. At the end of this parody I call a fight he lets me take the children home rather then relenting the style of their hair and the principle of the matter to me. I call this a parody because it mimicks a fight in that he is trying to act like he really cares about the matter at hand. Acts like it. Now if it were me who didn't live with my children who are the essence of my being I would lick the fuckers feet rather then not be able to see my children again. He knows damn well I have the control of this and he needs to be on his best behavior because I completely disaggree with his morals that he is trying to instill in my children and he is violent, bi-polar, aggressive, and a bigot among other things that I can't spell and more I probably don't even know about. Danny has some delusion that he should get whatever he wants and that he can do whatever needs to be done to get it. That will be his downfall with his children since he can fall no farther in other aspects of his life. He has had numerous chances to treat his children to the kind of father he never had, but I will not risk thier chance at a happy, harmonious existance with other human beings by letting him teach them to be assholes just because that is what he believes you need to do in order to get by.
Now for the rant.
Danny is once again not allowed to see the children, big suprise. This is how it went down this time. Went to his apartment to drop them off. Yes, found a ride, drove out there, carried the children, carseats, bag, and blankies up the stairs to the lazy ass' apartmet door. He states that he is going to cut thier hair. Sneers it as if that is the only logical thing to do to a mohawk. I tell him that if those are his plans then I will take them home as they are technically my children since I care for them, provide for them and worry about them 6 days a week rather then his 1 if he has time. We argue, of course. He says "would you rather I said I will leave it and bring them home bald anyways." Typical Danny statement. He then calls me a stupid bitch in front of the kids, says their hair looks dumb in front of them, says I am trying to make them into freaks like me, and brings up all kinds of off the wall shit that didn't have anything to do with the hair issue. All the while ignoring Seth trying to tell him that he asked for the mohawk and that he likes it. At the end of this parody I call a fight he lets me take the children home rather then relenting the style of their hair and the principle of the matter to me. I call this a parody because it mimicks a fight in that he is trying to act like he really cares about the matter at hand. Acts like it. Now if it were me who didn't live with my children who are the essence of my being I would lick the fuckers feet rather then not be able to see my children again. He knows damn well I have the control of this and he needs to be on his best behavior because I completely disaggree with his morals that he is trying to instill in my children and he is violent, bi-polar, aggressive, and a bigot among other things that I can't spell and more I probably don't even know about. Danny has some delusion that he should get whatever he wants and that he can do whatever needs to be done to get it. That will be his downfall with his children since he can fall no farther in other aspects of his life. He has had numerous chances to treat his children to the kind of father he never had, but I will not risk thier chance at a happy, harmonious existance with other human beings by letting him teach them to be assholes just because that is what he believes you need to do in order to get by.