Nov 17, 2011 20:36
you know what i dont like? people who forces or pressures other to drink. especially if they are an adult who is pressuring a minor. today, my little sister happened to invite her boyfriend to the family gathering and thats what happened. he being only 17 never drink alcohol not any kind of alcohol, my uncle gave him some rice liquor. my uncle asked him to drink and he said no, but they kept pressuring him to until he felt like he has to, to be honorable. i didnt know of it until my little sister got home. she was getting blankets and pillows and i asked her what its for, i can tell that she has been crying. she said our uncle forced her boyfriend to drink. i was shocked. what my family dont understand is that they are allowing someone's son to drink when he had never drink in his entire life. my little sisters boyfriend is a really nice guy. he is very and i mean very very nice and if someone who is related to his girlfriend ask him to do something he will, just for her. i'm just so annoyed with my uncles because they are the people who gets drunk and cry and argue etc etc and knowing them like that i wouldnt want a guy like my sisters boyfriend to be caught up between them. i immediately asked my family why they let him drink when they perfectly know that he doesnt do those stuff and what if his family gets upset, they will look down upon our family, but all they said was oh well and shrugg their shoulder, they think its ok, but for a person who doesnt drink i think its not. espeically since they dont know how is parents would react too.
they got home and they had to call his mother and she was pissed very pissed. and my moms sitting here saying its ok but his mom was mad. if my son was ever and i say ever in a situation like this i wouldnt let my son go near his gf's family for a while. sighs sheess damn family.