I wanna turn this whole thing upside down
So its been a while....Life has been interesting and stressful......
The main situation is the wedding. My dad is pushing and pushing for us to make up our minds what we want to do but we just need time we have all the time in the world....but anyways we have made a final decision...just have talk to my dad...see he said that if we eloped he would give us a down payment on a house rather than paying for the wedding...at first I wanted a huge wedding ya know what girl doesnt...but with all the stress and stuff and some thinking charlie and I came to the conclusion that hey yea the wedding tis the biggest day of our life...btu which would any one choose...money for one day or money for a house that you will have for a long time? So we still have to talk to my dad but thats want we want...I mean we will still have a wedding at the church and as for a reception..Charlies family is good friends with Andiamos and we are going to go to the one thats a hall on 14 and vandyke...Charlies dad is taking care of that....so all in reality charlie and I could get married next week....but we are not sure when exactly when yet....definaly after september becuz thats when my cousin is getting married....but I am very excited becuz Andiamos yum....
Lately I have been really fighting with my dad.,..I mean hard core....see up until now I always thought there might be some nice in him so i had faith that some day maybe we could have a good father daughter relashionship....but when we fought last week...he was so mean to me...I mean he said thigns that no father should say to his daughter....he was truley mean...the main thing was about me not having a job right now....he acts like I never had a ajob and that I dont want to get one...well ok I was the first one to get a job out of my sister and borther...my sister just got her first job last month...and he is harpin on me...but whatever I have made peace with the situation...I cant do anything for him any more I have to do it for my self....I mean I got all A's on my report card for the first time ever besides gym classes, and he didnt say good job he said why cant you do that all the time....he supports his family but is not a good father...any one of my friends that have ever met him are scared of him....when my sister and i had to go to court for shop lifting like 6 years ago...the lady in charge weas asking us if everytihng was ok at home and if our dad treated good...we said yea...ha So honestly I dont want him to walk me down the isle...I would like walk by myself...or have my mom...this whole situation has got my thinking things and I dont know what to do...sometimes you need that parental guidance..but i have an stone heart closeminded father, and a mother who hasnt really interacted with people outside the house in like 10 years...Dont get me wrong I love my mom and we have a great relashionship but she is more of a friend than some one who can give good advice.....
So this weekend was awesome....friday Charlie and I got the season of Roswell...he has never seen it and i know Charlie would like it...so we got tht and stayed home and watched that all night...saturday was packed up...first My sister my mom, my aunt Paula and cousin Alicia went to my cousin Dave and Maries wedding shower out in southgate..had soem good food got a bunch of prizes and it was cool to see what they got to give us some ideas for ours....then we came home...chilled for a bit...then went over to kristinas for her smokeout....had agood time drank a bottle of wine yum...Kristina and Ad left for a bit and so charlie and I had to watch their 7 kids and it was crzy at first but charlie got them to play the statue game haha so they all were quite till they got back..but charlie was great with the kids...he really is great with em becuz I know he is a kid at heart...so I cant wait to begin popping em out...So thenafter that we were supposed to go up to Terry's terrace with a bunch of people charlie and i got there and it looked like white trash central so we decided to go else where....So we ended up going to Waves on Jefferson...Charlie and I got there first and we ended up ordering this drink thats is in a huge fish bowl...not really realizing how big it was......we got it and started drinking b4 everyone came....then Tom, Whitney, Ken, Katie, and Brian came up there and we were all drinking...and chatting it was a good time...but Charlie and I couldnt even fiish half of the fish bowl becuz we were getting really drunk...it was a long island with blue corroco...so we were getting smashed...Whitney and I went out and danced for one song...but the crowd was an older one so they were playing liek late 70's early 80's music yuk!...but Tom said that the last timethey came up there is was boomin with young people....I was talking to Brian and he is a Sous Chef in the Renissance Center downtown....I guess he is a great chef...btu the crazy thign is is that he works with one of Charlies bros best friends...small world...
But anyways were we supposed to go camping with Tom and Whitney at the end of the month...but we thought we had Charlies reunion...turns out that its next weekend and camping is the following week...so this weekend we have the reunion its a whole weekend thing friday the guys are going to the tigers game and the women are going to a bar...then saturday we are goign to his Aunt Patties which is the mansion in GP and we are goign swimming, and such its going to be great...then sunday the whole family reunion is goign on a yacht and going to go down the detroit river...Im so excited....the yacht is the one from the GP yacht club....
So then the following weekend Charlie and I are going camping up at Burt Lake with Tom and Whitney...we are gogint to leave thursday and come back sunday...I love camping...we actually went out yesterday and bought a tent, two folding chairs, and a table that folds up and has an umbrella and four seats...so we are really pumped
well I guess thats it
The main situation is the wedding. My dad is pushing and pushing for us to make up our minds what we want to do but we just need time we have all the time in the world....but anyways we have made a final decision...just have talk to my dad...see he said that if we eloped he would give us a down payment on a house rather than paying for the wedding...at first I wanted a huge wedding ya know what girl doesnt...but with all the stress and stuff and some thinking charlie and I came to the conclusion that hey yea the wedding tis the biggest day of our life...btu which would any one choose...money for one day or money for a house that you will have for a long time? So we still have to talk to my dad but thats want we want...I mean we will still have a wedding at the church and as for a reception..Charlies family is good friends with Andiamos and we are going to go to the one thats a hall on 14 and vandyke...Charlies dad is taking care of that....so all in reality charlie and I could get married next week....but we are not sure when exactly when yet....definaly after september becuz thats when my cousin is getting married....but I am very excited becuz Andiamos yum....
Lately I have been really fighting with my dad.,..I mean hard core....see up until now I always thought there might be some nice in him so i had faith that some day maybe we could have a good father daughter relashionship....but when we fought last week...he was so mean to me...I mean he said thigns that no father should say to his daughter....he was truley mean...the main thing was about me not having a job right now....he acts like I never had a ajob and that I dont want to get one...well ok I was the first one to get a job out of my sister and borther...my sister just got her first job last month...and he is harpin on me...but whatever I have made peace with the situation...I cant do anything for him any more I have to do it for my self....I mean I got all A's on my report card for the first time ever besides gym classes, and he didnt say good job he said why cant you do that all the time....he supports his family but is not a good father...any one of my friends that have ever met him are scared of him....when my sister and i had to go to court for shop lifting like 6 years ago...the lady in charge weas asking us if everytihng was ok at home and if our dad treated good...we said yea...ha So honestly I dont want him to walk me down the isle...I would like walk by myself...or have my mom...this whole situation has got my thinking things and I dont know what to do...sometimes you need that parental guidance..but i have an stone heart closeminded father, and a mother who hasnt really interacted with people outside the house in like 10 years...Dont get me wrong I love my mom and we have a great relashionship but she is more of a friend than some one who can give good advice.....
So this weekend was awesome....friday Charlie and I got the season of Roswell...he has never seen it and i know Charlie would like it...so we got tht and stayed home and watched that all night...saturday was packed up...first My sister my mom, my aunt Paula and cousin Alicia went to my cousin Dave and Maries wedding shower out in southgate..had soem good food got a bunch of prizes and it was cool to see what they got to give us some ideas for ours....then we came home...chilled for a bit...then went over to kristinas for her smokeout....had agood time drank a bottle of wine yum...Kristina and Ad left for a bit and so charlie and I had to watch their 7 kids and it was crzy at first but charlie got them to play the statue game haha so they all were quite till they got back..but charlie was great with the kids...he really is great with em becuz I know he is a kid at heart...so I cant wait to begin popping em out...So thenafter that we were supposed to go up to Terry's terrace with a bunch of people charlie and i got there and it looked like white trash central so we decided to go else where....So we ended up going to Waves on Jefferson...Charlie and I got there first and we ended up ordering this drink thats is in a huge fish bowl...not really realizing how big it was......we got it and started drinking b4 everyone came....then Tom, Whitney, Ken, Katie, and Brian came up there and we were all drinking...and chatting it was a good time...but Charlie and I couldnt even fiish half of the fish bowl becuz we were getting really drunk...it was a long island with blue corroco...so we were getting smashed...Whitney and I went out and danced for one song...but the crowd was an older one so they were playing liek late 70's early 80's music yuk!...but Tom said that the last timethey came up there is was boomin with young people....I was talking to Brian and he is a Sous Chef in the Renissance Center downtown....I guess he is a great chef...btu the crazy thign is is that he works with one of Charlies bros best friends...small world...
But anyways were we supposed to go camping with Tom and Whitney at the end of the month...but we thought we had Charlies reunion...turns out that its next weekend and camping is the following week...so this weekend we have the reunion its a whole weekend thing friday the guys are going to the tigers game and the women are going to a bar...then saturday we are goign to his Aunt Patties which is the mansion in GP and we are goign swimming, and such its going to be great...then sunday the whole family reunion is goign on a yacht and going to go down the detroit river...Im so excited....the yacht is the one from the GP yacht club....
So then the following weekend Charlie and I are going camping up at Burt Lake with Tom and Whitney...we are gogint to leave thursday and come back sunday...I love camping...we actually went out yesterday and bought a tent, two folding chairs, and a table that folds up and has an umbrella and four seats...so we are really pumped
well I guess thats it