actually crippen has 2 kids now..she got married in like 2003 which is why i came back from portland the first time i lived there..and then she had a daughter, darby, in april of 2005..shes like 2 months younger than cali and kaylee...and then now she had another baby, brady, in june..she said she got "fixed" now so thats it for her, but im really thrilled she got to have a boy and a girl w/ a husband she really loves (and really loves her!) i can tell she really is a wonderful mom too, so im glad i will have her to call sometimes if i have any questions! and ur definitely right about the whole "comfortable" thing w/ an ex..i think that is what always kept us together even before..we would try to break up numerous times but we would always end up in the same predictament just out of habit i guess. but yea things are actually much different now, i guess all those months of him being away gave us enough time to really seperate and not just fall back into the same pattern. ...but i went to eat w/ him and his daughter tonight and we got in a fight b/c i didnt put her straw in her drink..seriously..he felt i should have done that before i put my straw in my drink..but i didnt even think of it b/c she was talking to me the whole time about this little coloring book thing they gave her...but yea reminded me of what a jerk he can be for no reason at all. he even had the nerve to say something like "and this is who im having a kid w/!" like im incapable of caring for a child! yea so im back to not really knowing how this whole "friends" thing is gonna work out after all.. but anyway..i think i have decided on OLYVER TIAGO ZAHN for the name..b/c jays real name is santiago and he wanted to have some spanish in there since im not gonna let him have his last name..i said all along i was gonna let him pick the middle name, and the only other name he picked was jayson but i like tiago better...i never thought i would actually be able to settle on a name, but it really is like u just know it when its right!
i am happy for crippen. she deserves a great family! and um yeah...that is a really retarded thing to get angry about. and to actually say something that rude is even worse. boys are stupid and they don't become men for a looong time...if ever. i am dating someone who is 34 and while i sometimes feel lucky to not have to put up with as much immature b.s., he still has his days that make me feel i am back with a 20something. men and women are on very different wavelinks and in relationships its all about how well you can adjust. ya know....basically compatibility...and obviously you are waaay more mature than this dude. i mean he shouldn't even expect you to put her straw in her drink....i mean if she is old enough to talk she is capable of putting a straw in her drink and if he wanted someone to do it for her...well...she is HIS responsibility...not yours! that just irks me. but anyways...i'll get down. i LOVE the name.
just so ya know..jay will be 34 this friday. i use to say id give him til he was 40, to grow up, but really..i think if he hasnt by now, w/ the 3rd kid on the way, he probably never will. and yea that straw thing was beyond ridiculous, but its just one example of the many stupid fights we have had since ive known him..it seriously is like i dont do much of anything worthy to make him mad, so he has to pick out the most retarded things to bitch at me for. yea..we are completely incompatible.
and ur definitely right about the whole "comfortable" thing w/ an ex..i think that is what always kept us together even before..we would try to break up numerous times but we would always end up in the same predictament just out of habit i guess. but yea things are actually much different now, i guess all those months of him being away gave us enough time to really seperate and not just fall back into the same pattern. ...but i went to eat w/ him and his daughter tonight and we got in a fight b/c i didnt put her straw in her drink..seriously..he felt i should have done that before i put my straw in my drink..but i didnt even think of it b/c she was talking to me the whole time about this little coloring book thing they gave her...but yea reminded me of what a jerk he can be for no reason at all. he even had the nerve to say something like "and this is who im having a kid w/!" like im incapable of caring for a child! yea so im back to not really knowing how this whole "friends" thing is gonna work out after all..
but anyway..i think i have decided on OLYVER TIAGO ZAHN for the name..b/c jays real name is santiago and he wanted to have some spanish in there since im not gonna let him have his last name..i said all along i was gonna let him pick the middle name, and the only other name he picked was jayson but i like tiago better...i never thought i would actually be able to settle on a name, but it really is like u just know it when its right!
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and um yeah...that is a really retarded thing to get angry about. and to actually say something that rude is even worse. boys are stupid and they don't become men for a looong time...if ever. i am dating someone who is 34 and while i sometimes feel lucky to not have to put up with as much immature b.s., he still has his days that make me feel i am back with a 20something. men and women are on very different wavelinks and in relationships its all about how well you can adjust. ya know....basically compatibility...and obviously you are waaay more mature than this dude. i mean he shouldn't even expect you to put her straw in her drink....i mean if she is old enough to talk she is capable of putting a straw in her drink and if he wanted someone to do it for her...well...she is HIS responsibility...not yours! that just irks me. but anyways...i'll get down.
i LOVE the name.
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