Getting back up on the horse...sometimes you fall off.

[lauraceleste]

I'm starting to resent the fact that I meet spectacular guys who end up being emotionally unavailable, or unable to just take a chance and just let the chips fall. Things can be going SO well and then we get stuck in traffic and off they go on a detour. I could let it make me angry, but instead I guess I'm just ashamed

Comments

[trillian4210]

I highly doubt your face is turning guys away. For one, it IS pretty, and for two, guys are just stupid and they turn themselves away.

I doubt you're desperate either, but if you're really looking for that special someone and you look for it in the guys you meet right away--that is, you start speculating right off the bat that "he could be the one" then that could read. It did for me. Anytime I reeeaaaly liked a guy, it came across loud and clear, and nearly every time it never worked out.

So next time you meet someone awesome, just be yourself, and try not to "wonder if." Next thing you know, you'll be wondering why your phone won't stop ringing and you'll find yourself worried that he's "too clingy."

I swear to god, this works, I'm not just blowing smoke. ;)

[lauraceleste]

I'm sorry I forgot to reply to this (I read it on my blackberry) - I totally agree, and you're completely right. So I've been trying to heed your words and I've been taking it semi slow.

BUT....

...after a group bonfire on Saturday for our church, there were 5 people who were discussing how "cozy" we were getting... (I know this through a friend who was one of the 5, she confronted me.)

So even if we're just being friends...apparently our body language speaks volumes.

[skitty_kitty]

Quick comment because I'm freaking tired, but I couldn't let this go: Laura, you are pretty. I really think you're cute, so no, I don't think that's it at all. Whatever it is, I can't hazard a guess (and really you wouldn't want me to because I'm notoriously single), but it ain't yer looks.

[lauraceleste]

I'm sorry I didn't reply to this earlier, I read it on my blackberry. I really appreciate what you said; I just wish some guys would take notice of what the girls always tell me (ah, that came out wrong...)

Anyway, I'm tkaing it slow. Read my response to the comment above :)

[skitty_kitty]

I hope things work for ya. ;D

[twistdang3l]

i agree with them! its definitely not your face chick!!! (guys are stupid..... a LOT of the time!) lol... :D

its just a matter of sifting and sorting through the crap front they put up (in the attempt to figure them out)...

ALSO, i <3 colbie caillat.. and that song...

kthxbai!
ly cuz..
Ty