.....What to do........
Hey People whats up??? Well there are alot of new things going on right about now. Me and my bf (well we are engaged now) want to get married. The thing is that when we told me mom her and all of her friends are trying to plan everything for us and they have set a wedding date as of May 5th. The only problem with this is that we want to wait longer so that we have more money for the wedding and we don't want to get married in the church that they have arranged. We want to have a big wedding complete with madrinas and padrinos (if you are hispanic you know what those are)anyways with the wedding date being May 5th that doesnt give us time to find madrinas and padrinos and if we could find some they won't have time to buy whatever they are going to buy (example there are madrinas and padrinos for the cake, for the rings, for the dress, for flowers, for music, etc....) Also the church they have arranged, I don't think does weddings the way we want it done, truthfully we want it in a Catholic church (no offense to anybody, but I know they would know how I want my wedding and what we are talking about) We just don't know how to tell the family and friends that what they have arranged is not what we want without making them mad. I dont know what to do and I have also done told my friends of this date because I thought it was just me that wanted to wait but then Jose told me the same thing about 2 nights ago so now I know he feels the same way that I do, so what do I do now?????????????? that's all for now, I got a lot of thinking to do!