this guilt weighs more than the ground i walk on...

[larstud]

i know i dont post often but for once i need to let it all out. i have the worst feeling inside. 
ignorance is bliss
i hate lying
i hate people who lie
i would like to trust people
what is truth?
thats where it begins-
ignorance is bliss 
a while back i wrote a post about being stuck in a drama situation that i didnt ask for.
now i am stuck in the

Comments

[abrilliantally]

yeah, i don't think it's your place to tell this new girl.
unless you know her? i get that you are friends with zoe, and when i thought you were talking about telling HER that is why that was acceptable. if you don't know this new girl, that really puts you in an odd place. now, zoe, being the ex girlfriend... if she wants to go all carrie underwood and sabotage his new relationship, she can. she's the ex. it seems to me like your decision lies in the fact that you need to make up your mind about your friendship with him almost. because if he really is this huge scumbag, why would you want to be friends with somebody that abuses other peoples trust and then sticks you in the middle of situations that he creates, hoping you'll mop it all up? if you don't want to be friends with the guy anymore, cut it off. then you can think about telling the other woman, or at least warning her. but somehow i feel like worrying about this issue is keeping you right where you don't want to be. and until you talk to these people directly or just cut them out of your life entirely, you are going to be trapped in this dust storm of drama. believe me, i know what it's like to be caught up in someone completely irrational all-about-me world. some people can't change that that is the way they are. and some people never see how much it hurts everyone around them. so you have to do what is best for you.