I wonder if I'm the only one
Lately, I've come across some people that aren't comfortable being friends with "ex-lovers". I do understand if things ended badly, if perhaps it was long-term with no love and someone wants to re-kindle or something.
What exactly constitutes an ex-lover? Someone you've had sex with at least once? Someone you were with for a while, hence the love part of lover? I don't know.
If there's no ill-will, I don't see a problem with being friends with someone you've been intimate with. Sure, if one party was trying to get back together with the other party, that might be a problem if the other party wasn't interested. What if it was just for friendship? What say you?
Poll Who
Poll So, ex-lover, future friend?
Just curious. I always run into conundrums in multiples, thought I'd find out what you think.
What exactly constitutes an ex-lover? Someone you've had sex with at least once? Someone you were with for a while, hence the love part of lover? I don't know.
If there's no ill-will, I don't see a problem with being friends with someone you've been intimate with. Sure, if one party was trying to get back together with the other party, that might be a problem if the other party wasn't interested. What if it was just for friendship? What say you?
Poll Who
Poll So, ex-lover, future friend?
Just curious. I always run into conundrums in multiples, thought I'd find out what you think.