I guess I didn't get the memo where it became selfish to want to make friends. I guess that every kid in school and basically everybody in the world is by proxy selfish.
i have no desire to seek out the frienships of people that hurt my friends. i expect people that claim to care about me to be on the same page becuase i have some self respect. you took me off your friends list so stay the fuck out of my journal. i was in no way talking to you.
You don't have to seek out those friendships, but to say that someone is SELFISH by expanding their circle of friends is absurd. It's not some sort of personal vendetta against you, if anyone else had said that same thing (though I don't think anyone could quite do it as perfectly) I would have done the same thing. People need to get the fuck over themselves.
You know, the whole situation is a lot more cut and dry than you'd like to think. It's not like we're discussing string theory or astrophysics. I get that you're upset. And I get why. And you know what? I understand why you made the post you did probably more than you realize. You underestimate me as a whole-- but I have a lot more understanding, common sense, logic, compassion, empathy and a whole laundry list of other shit that you've kind of just decided I don't have. Why is neither here nor there, though.
The point of what I'm saying is that when you make broad generalizations, such as your post earlier, you open yourself up for criticism. If you can't take criticism (and I don't mean criticism of your character, just your saying) for whatever reason, then maybe you shouldn't write such vitriolic, hateful bullshit in a public forum. Until you block me and whomever else you'd like to not read that stuff, it's a public forum. And I'm free to feel however I want to about what you say. And I'm free to post a retort (though not in
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I know you think you know everything, but the fact is that what I said was not as general as you'd like to believe. It was about something specific you knnow nothing about. That's why I think it's really silly of you to reply because it was in no way directed at you.
And this, "And generally I let so much of this stuff just fall by the wayside, from pretty much everyone in life. But instead of moving on with your life and bettering yourself, you try to make people feel like shit. And you know what? It's no good that you feel like shit. That's never good, for you or whomever else, but you're not going to live your life to the fullest sitting at home scheming new shitty things to say about this person or that person or this group of friends or that group of enemies. But I'm sure you'll shout until you're blue in the face, and you won't feel a lick better. I promise that. You can sit and wait with your popcorn for shitty things to happen to people, or you can stand on your own two feet, even though it fucking hurts, and just start
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You are just sitting there waiting for me to say something that you think you can pick at. You are the one that tries to make people feel like shit. But you don't succeed. I really don't know why you bother to say anything when I've made it perfectly clear that anything you think has no bearing on my life. So really what's the point? I tell people this part of my story and show them how you act towards me. They all just think you're insecure. You need to move on.
you took me off your friends list so stay the fuck out of my journal. i was in no way talking to you.
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so you took me off and readded me. really hard to figure out.
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The point of what I'm saying is that when you make broad generalizations, such as your post earlier, you open yourself up for criticism. If you can't take criticism (and I don't mean criticism of your character, just your saying) for whatever reason, then maybe you shouldn't write such vitriolic, hateful bullshit in a public forum. Until you block me and whomever else you'd like to not read that stuff, it's a public forum. And I'm free to feel however I want to about what you say. And I'm free to post a retort (though not in ( ... )
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And this, "And generally I let so much of this stuff just fall by the wayside, from pretty much everyone in life. But instead of moving on with your life and bettering yourself, you try to make people feel like shit. And you know what? It's no good that you feel like shit. That's never good, for you or whomever else, but you're not going to live your life to the fullest sitting at home scheming new shitty things to say about this person or that person or this group of friends or that group of enemies. But I'm sure you'll shout until you're blue in the face, and you won't feel a lick better. I promise that. You can sit and wait with your popcorn for shitty things to happen to people, or you can stand on your own two feet, even though it fucking hurts, and just start ( ... )
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