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[lagreenflamingo]

Here's a survey for you:

Can I consider it cheating if he said he wasn't interested in other girls but went on a date with one he talked about 2 days after we broke up? He said he got her number a long time ago and friended her on facebook while we were still together. I'd like to consider it cheating.

(yes) (no)

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[__mermaid__]

(emotional cheating?)

[__mermaid__]

(I mean, if he friended her while you two were still together because he got her number a long time ago, he must have been thinking of her in a 'I want to know more about this chick' kind of way...and wanting to know more about a person or wanting to know a person better technically counts as being "interested.")

[lagreenflamingo]

I guess the main issue for me is the lies. So many lies. "No there's not girls I'm interested in." "No, Kelly's only pretty in a normal way." "I'm breaking up with you because I want to be alone." "It's going to take me at least a year to find another girl." Meanwhile, he called her for a date the next day. And assuming she didn't know about me, he'd have to be pretty sneaky to get around her finding out he has a girlfriend.

[__mermaid__]

At least he wasn't lying about being attracted to women...

[oh, life]

[lagreenflamingo]

No he did. I said, are you attracted to anyone else? He said no.