Response to Dragon/Problem: Take care of it or those it harms
Task: Give without maiming self or others
Gift: Compassion, generosity
Addictions: Caretaking, codependence
The ideal of the Caregiver is the perfect, caring parent-generative, loving, and attentive to noticing and developing talents and interests. The Caregiver is the creator of community that helps people feel that they belong and are valued and cared for by encouraging nurturing relationships between and among individuals and constituencies.
Shadow Side:
Shadow caregivers wish to maintain indefinitely the symbiotic state experienced by mother and child, devouring the growing your protégé to try to keep it or make it part of his or her own self. The irony, of course, is that Shadow Caregivers devour others wile also feeling devoured themselves by the caregiving roles. In fact, protégés are often driven or manipulated into doing what the Shadow Caregiver would like to be doing in an unlived life. A Shadow caregiver also may feel that s/he never gets anything back for his/her trouble. However, this type of Shadow caregiver also cannot get anything back, because s/he refuses to receive. These Caregivers may use guilt and obligation they inspire in others to get their own way.
sdghjfkglf also, s-sorry for not answering on aim ;A;A;A;A;A; My teacher had called me into his office and the meeting took longer than I anticipated and what was that about Yuujirou??!
Because when I needs hugs y'all are among the first to give D: ...And then I also find myself giving y'all hugs a lot more than I need them xD
DD: I'd get on AIM but...lsakdjfsldfj trying to work on this paper and get as much done before going to dentist :|;; *GIVING HUGS ANYWAY...WITH KAMINA...FEEL THE MANLY INSPIRATION!*
THAT PROBABLY WON'T BE UNTIL LATER TONIGHT *is FINALLY feeling her writing groove for this thing :|* But yeah I will. Hopefully? Blah my professor hates me I bet ._.; This is my worst semester EVER. *WELL. UHM. KAMINA DOESN'T MIND HUGGING GIRLS? 8D Except that's Yuu's account :| We're not sure what to think now :|*
WELL, THAT'S OKAY! I... will probably be up late drawing on my assignments and sdkhfjkgf AND THAT'S WONDERFUL! FIGHT-O FIGHT-O! *I AM A GIRL NOW? I SWITCH SOMETIMES, I HOPE YOU DON'T MIND! :3 ...and you know that Kanda's ttly a girl. He can easily pass for one. 8D;*
xDD WORKING ON IT WORKING ON IT---SHIT I GOTTA GO IN LIKE 5 MINUTES XD *>_> IT KINNA DEPENDS. I'M JUST TOO LAZY TO SWITCH OUT OF THIS ACCOUNT EVEN THOUGH I ACTUALLY NEVER DID ANYTHING WITH IT. JUST FELT LIKE USING KAMINA ICONS FOR RANDOM OOC THINGS XDDD As for Kanda...no :| Want boobs.*
You are the Caregiver
50% Innocent, 46% Orphan, 54% Warrior, 100% Caregiver, 67% Seeker, 67% Lover, 67% Destroyer, 75% Creator, 60% Magician, 63% Ruler, 63% Sage and 67% Fool!
Goal: Help others.
Fear: Selfishness
Response to Dragon/Problem: Take care of it or those it harms
Task: Give without maiming self or others
Gift: Compassion, generosity
Addictions: Caretaking, codependence
The ideal of the Caregiver is the perfect, caring parent-generative, loving, and attentive to noticing and developing talents and interests. The Caregiver is the creator of community that helps people feel that they belong and are valued and cared for by encouraging nurturing relationships between and among individuals and constituencies.
Shadow Side:
Shadow caregivers wish to maintain indefinitely the symbiotic state experienced by mother and child, devouring the growing your protégé to try to keep it or make it part of his or her own self. The irony, of course, is that Shadow Caregivers devour others wile also feeling devoured themselves by the caregiving roles. In fact, protégés are often driven or manipulated into doing what the Shadow Caregiver would like to be doing in an unlived life. A Shadow caregiver also may feel that s/he never gets anything back for his/her trouble. However, this type of Shadow caregiver also cannot get anything back, because s/he refuses to receive. These Caregivers may use guilt and obligation they inspire in others to get their own way.
sdghjfkglf also, s-sorry for not answering on aim ;A;A;A;A;A; My teacher had called me into his office and the meeting took longer than I anticipated and what was that about Yuujirou??!
sorry, Lae-tan, we're spamming you :|
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djklhjg ♥ *CLINGS* I'M IN NEED OF SOME TALKING TOO SINCE I JUST FEEL LIKE I MISS YOU! ... why do I rhyme?
YESPLZ!
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pffft do I look like I care? xD "OMFG GTFO NAO."
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MAYBE NOT! ...I feel like my capslocks are too much and too... idk, false. ._. I need a hug.
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DD: I'd get on AIM but...lsakdjfsldfj trying to work on this paper and get as much done before going to dentist :|;; *GIVING HUGS ANYWAY...WITH KAMINA...FEEL THE MANLY INSPIRATION!*
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shjfkd it's okay bb. Just get on when you're DONE, D: not when you have stuff to do. *OH GOD DOESN'T HUG GUYS THAT OFTEN 8D;;;*
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THAT PROBABLY WON'T BE UNTIL LATER TONIGHT *is FINALLY feeling her writing groove for this thing :|* But yeah I will. Hopefully? Blah my professor hates me I bet ._.; This is my worst semester EVER. *WELL. UHM. KAMINA DOESN'T MIND HUGGING GIRLS? 8D Except that's Yuu's account :| We're not sure what to think now :|*
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WELL, THAT'S OKAY! I... will probably be up late drawing on my assignments and sdkhfjkgf AND THAT'S WONDERFUL! FIGHT-O FIGHT-O! *I AM A GIRL NOW? I SWITCH SOMETIMES, I HOPE YOU DON'T MIND! :3 ...and you know that Kanda's ttly a girl. He can easily pass for one. 8D;*
BTW VIRAL'S NOT A GIRL. Just so that's clarified.
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xDD WORKING ON IT WORKING ON IT---SHIT I GOTTA GO IN LIKE 5 MINUTES XD *>_> IT KINNA DEPENDS. I'M JUST TOO LAZY TO SWITCH OUT OF THIS ACCOUNT EVEN THOUGH I ACTUALLY NEVER DID ANYTHING WITH IT. JUST FELT LIKE USING KAMINA ICONS FOR RANDOM OOC THINGS XDDD As for Kanda...no :| Want boobs.*
>_> HE HAS A SWORD! *lulz keywords.*
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