Note to self
Dear Rosario,
Just a note for you to read later on down the line, you never know when you'll need a reminder about why not to do/say certain things that way you won't be kicking yourself in the ass later.
First things first, friends who feel the need to make desicions for you are not your friends. "Well I thought since you are blah blah blah." You are an adult anyone that can't see that must have missed the memo and possibly not worth the time and stress induced thought. That being said the few that do take the time to ask and are honest make sure to keep around. It's hard to come across people who can talk to you honestly not only about their life to you but don't feel the need to compete with you either. Does it really matter who has it worse? Do you really want your life to be worse? It may be a "dog eat dog world" but they also say that dogs are man's best friend right? So, keep your eyes, mind and heart open.
Family is beyond great even if they do drive you the wall more than half the time. It may seem like they don't care and aren't listening but they care in their own way and do the most wonderful things for you when it really counts. Be patient.
Having a baby is life changing but you aren't the only one that brought him into this world(only literally is that true) and won't be the only one to raise him. The person you married is behind you 100% even if he is an ass sometimes, don't be to hard on him and support each other and let the other help you. Pride can be a bothersome thing.
On a final note, I really don't like the 80's >.
Just a note for you to read later on down the line, you never know when you'll need a reminder about why not to do/say certain things that way you won't be kicking yourself in the ass later.
First things first, friends who feel the need to make desicions for you are not your friends. "Well I thought since you are blah blah blah." You are an adult anyone that can't see that must have missed the memo and possibly not worth the time and stress induced thought. That being said the few that do take the time to ask and are honest make sure to keep around. It's hard to come across people who can talk to you honestly not only about their life to you but don't feel the need to compete with you either. Does it really matter who has it worse? Do you really want your life to be worse? It may be a "dog eat dog world" but they also say that dogs are man's best friend right? So, keep your eyes, mind and heart open.
Family is beyond great even if they do drive you the wall more than half the time. It may seem like they don't care and aren't listening but they care in their own way and do the most wonderful things for you when it really counts. Be patient.
Having a baby is life changing but you aren't the only one that brought him into this world(only literally is that true) and won't be the only one to raise him. The person you married is behind you 100% even if he is an ass sometimes, don't be to hard on him and support each other and let the other help you. Pride can be a bothersome thing.
On a final note, I really don't like the 80's >.