Confidence
Red is the color of confidence. It is independent and can take a lot of crap without a budge. It is secure enough with itself to only rarely need emotional support. The only things that can bring it even slightly down are the really hard and emotional moments in life. Red is bold, true, and confident.
You see the frame of a girl you think is attractive: lovely smile, beautiful shape and is clean. If she opens her mouth to pity herself or display excessive and over-the-edge modesty, or have a high emotional demand, and her physical attractiveness goes out the window.
You see another girl with equal physical beauty, but when she opens her mouth, she asks you about yourself, and when you ask, she tells you about what she loves, what she's done, what she's learned, how she learned it, and where she wants to take her life. Her all-around beauty is amplified by her love of life and ambition, and her complete confidence in herself. Her appearance never really bothers her - bad hair days don't exist and she will feel just as happy without make-up. She doesn't need to dress immodestly or be too forward for a man to notice her. She laughs when something is funny, and can be herself without a single worry. She revels in her uniqueness, making herself unforgettable. She doesn't care about how people may judge her, she has no reason to be sorry for her personality. She is noticibly kind, sweet, empathetic, and inspiring... with a great growth capacity. Her only fear and first priority is God.
This is a woman of confidence, who can wear red with class. This is the woman of my dreams - the woman I aspire to be.