This post gets abit depressing so feel free to skip it....

[ladyreo]

As many of you know, I put alot into my friendships. I invest alot emotionally. And as many of you also know, I have been stabbed in the back and dragged through the mud quite a few times by friends for the effort. There were a few ones, though, that were spectacularly painful and still hurt like buggery to this day. These few people were so close

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[honey_77]

Ok, well. You dont know me well, and I dont know you well, except for Journal stuff ive read and a common connection between us (sorry to call you a "connection", Mike, but...yknow what i mean, nothing bad by it.)Suffice to say, I did actually follow most of your story (i had to go back and re-read a few times, but i got it in the end) and yeah.
*hugs* have a hug from someone who, although relatively unknown to you, has been through something VERY similar and ended up being the hated one also. And why? I was told by one person "because I got involved". Now, that is bullshit. Absolute BULLSHIT. I was dragged into the whole sorry mess and tried my best to stay on the fence and i told ALL involved i would not take sides. But of course, they had to have someone to blame, didnt they? And I (and you) became that person. Dont take it to heart (even though its bloody hard not to, i know.) You were there to blame, and you were the easiest to blame. When all you did was try to help.
Life is a true bitch.
And listen, your friendship is a gift. If they, or anyone, is stupid enough to throw it away, they sure as shit didnt deserve it in the first place. You dont even know me yet, with your comments to what I have been going through lately, have helped both me and my mum more than most others have been able to. Just remember the good person you are. :)