Is Romance Possible?
from www.urielheals.com
Valentine's Day is this week and each year I write an article for those of us, including me, who are spending yet another Valentine's Day without a romantic partner. For many of us the Shift process has removed romance from our lives and we have been without partners or even the prospect of a partner for a long time. I know that there is a purpose for this, to give us the opportunity to work on ourselves before we bring someone else into the process. It also gives us the opportunity to bypass experiencing difficult relationships while we are working on other things. But romance is possible and will happen for many of us this year. It is time and we are ready.
Everyone wants to find their soulmate and many of us have had these types of relationships. While some are great, many of them are extremely difficult. A soulmate provides us with a reflection of our soul and all of the lessons that we need to learn through relating to others. Soulmate relationships are very compelling and when they end, very painful. What happens in between teaches us a lot about our needs, wants and beliefs about relationships. It is time for a new dynamic for us and that is what we have been waiting for, voluntarily or involuntarily.
The new relationship dynamic is the 'kindred spirit', someone who is our soulmate but on a different level, without the karma that soulmates bring to a relationship. With a kindred spirit we meet our twin flame on a level that has no drama, chaos or karma. We connect to a kindred spirit without needs, wants or expectations. With them we can experience unconditional love in its truest form, where we can be who we are and accept them in the same way. We don't have to heal or change anyone. We can allow the relationship to be what it is without fear of what happens if it ends, without wrapping our emotional or psychological identity into it and truly experiencing it in the present moment, without connecting to the past.
These are all new concepts for us and we have spent many years clearing, healing, learning and evolving so that we could step into this new type of relationship. Are we ready? Many of us are because we have done the work. When it is time we will be led to the right person and it will be wonderful. Will the challenge then be to accept a relationship that has no drama, to be with someone who accepts us for who we are and who loves us unconditionally? Our kindred spirit will be able to walk our path with us, we won't have to heal or change them. They will resonate with our energy and be at the same level spiritually. I think we're all ready and it's time for us to walk our path with a partner who reflects the love we have for ourselves and acknowledges the healing and learning we have accomplished. Happy Valentine's Day to all of you.
Valentine's Day is this week and each year I write an article for those of us, including me, who are spending yet another Valentine's Day without a romantic partner. For many of us the Shift process has removed romance from our lives and we have been without partners or even the prospect of a partner for a long time. I know that there is a purpose for this, to give us the opportunity to work on ourselves before we bring someone else into the process. It also gives us the opportunity to bypass experiencing difficult relationships while we are working on other things. But romance is possible and will happen for many of us this year. It is time and we are ready.
Everyone wants to find their soulmate and many of us have had these types of relationships. While some are great, many of them are extremely difficult. A soulmate provides us with a reflection of our soul and all of the lessons that we need to learn through relating to others. Soulmate relationships are very compelling and when they end, very painful. What happens in between teaches us a lot about our needs, wants and beliefs about relationships. It is time for a new dynamic for us and that is what we have been waiting for, voluntarily or involuntarily.
The new relationship dynamic is the 'kindred spirit', someone who is our soulmate but on a different level, without the karma that soulmates bring to a relationship. With a kindred spirit we meet our twin flame on a level that has no drama, chaos or karma. We connect to a kindred spirit without needs, wants or expectations. With them we can experience unconditional love in its truest form, where we can be who we are and accept them in the same way. We don't have to heal or change anyone. We can allow the relationship to be what it is without fear of what happens if it ends, without wrapping our emotional or psychological identity into it and truly experiencing it in the present moment, without connecting to the past.
These are all new concepts for us and we have spent many years clearing, healing, learning and evolving so that we could step into this new type of relationship. Are we ready? Many of us are because we have done the work. When it is time we will be led to the right person and it will be wonderful. Will the challenge then be to accept a relationship that has no drama, to be with someone who accepts us for who we are and who loves us unconditionally? Our kindred spirit will be able to walk our path with us, we won't have to heal or change them. They will resonate with our energy and be at the same level spiritually. I think we're all ready and it's time for us to walk our path with a partner who reflects the love we have for ourselves and acknowledges the healing and learning we have accomplished. Happy Valentine's Day to all of you.