Good Riddence to Bad Guests
I know.. I know.. everyone is waiting, with baited breath for me to respond to the latest round on internet gossip about myself and S&M.
I do have several things to say:
When people come to a message board they are there as GUESTS of the board owner. Like all boards, mine has rules. When people break those rules and then say "I'm LEAVING!" then hang around to make more drama, I toss their asses, you bet I do. That is my perogative as a board owner.
Recently some guests showed themselves to be poor guests and since they could not decide wether to leave like they said they were going to, or stay and attack my rules and myself, I helped them out the door.
As for everything I've heard about Crazes Blog....
I do NOT agree with her assessment of the situation or even the TOPIC matter she claims this tempest in the teapot was about.
I have nothing to say about Craze herself. She was my friend. If you count the year that Nightsky filled in for her as Admin,while she was offline, she was with S&M for 4 years. Not only does she know where all the bodies are buried... She buried most of them herself! (metaphorically speaking, of course)
If anyone REALLY wants or HAS to know what happened or feels they need my side of things, contact me. I have the original threads in my Archives and I will make them available to anyone who asks. You can make up your own mind. I'm not going to give MY translation of events, having seen some of the other translations... Why should I stoop to drama and just be another drama queen? Honestly.. if you want to see the threads, just ask. I"ll put them where they are accessible to anyone who wants to read them.
In other news... my holidays were GREAT! I had 16 family and friends for supper Christmas Eve, and it was a delightful bedlam! I am blessed with a truly wonderful and loving family.
S&M is in the moving process, from EZboard to YUKU and I'm creating an offshoot board, to be interlinked to Smoke and Mirrors. Its called
Smoke and Mirrors Dark.
Its not a support board. S&M Dark is a place for those of us who are not seeking support, but fellowship, and who have leanings to the "Darker side".
Drama Llamas and self righteous moralists need not apply.
(and yes there IS a difference between "immoral" and "illegal" and the person who tried to call S&M D "criminal" should look up the above quotationed definitions... my lawyer assures me there is nothing illegal about it, but the morals might be questionable, depending on who is doing the judging)
Smoke and Mirrors on YUKU will still be the same support board its ALWAYS been. We've had some staff changes, but the changes have been VERY good! When we move S&M on YUKU it will go back to being the board it USED to be when I opened it. One where ANY vampiric topic can be discussed... Any question asked. I didn't build S&M to spend every minute censoring posts. Thats not my job and I never want it to be so.
Those who come to S&M come to talk about what is on their mind or troubling them. We all need a place to be ourselves. I will never let others dictate to me what can and can't be discussed. Never have, never will. Sometimes you gotta stick with what you believe in, and I believe in S&M.
(and lets face it i'd be there collecting my articles and spells even if no one else was around... you don't really think I want to go back to collecting ALL THAT SHIT on my hardrives, do you???)
So... its still the same old controversial me... If you REALLY want to know what happened, don't go with the rumours. Just come ask me, and I'll SHOW you.
Carpe Noctum!
(and Happy New Year!)
Lady CG.
I do have several things to say:
When people come to a message board they are there as GUESTS of the board owner. Like all boards, mine has rules. When people break those rules and then say "I'm LEAVING!" then hang around to make more drama, I toss their asses, you bet I do. That is my perogative as a board owner.
Recently some guests showed themselves to be poor guests and since they could not decide wether to leave like they said they were going to, or stay and attack my rules and myself, I helped them out the door.
As for everything I've heard about Crazes Blog....
I do NOT agree with her assessment of the situation or even the TOPIC matter she claims this tempest in the teapot was about.
I have nothing to say about Craze herself. She was my friend. If you count the year that Nightsky filled in for her as Admin,while she was offline, she was with S&M for 4 years. Not only does she know where all the bodies are buried... She buried most of them herself! (metaphorically speaking, of course)
If anyone REALLY wants or HAS to know what happened or feels they need my side of things, contact me. I have the original threads in my Archives and I will make them available to anyone who asks. You can make up your own mind. I'm not going to give MY translation of events, having seen some of the other translations... Why should I stoop to drama and just be another drama queen? Honestly.. if you want to see the threads, just ask. I"ll put them where they are accessible to anyone who wants to read them.
In other news... my holidays were GREAT! I had 16 family and friends for supper Christmas Eve, and it was a delightful bedlam! I am blessed with a truly wonderful and loving family.
S&M is in the moving process, from EZboard to YUKU and I'm creating an offshoot board, to be interlinked to Smoke and Mirrors. Its called
Smoke and Mirrors Dark.
Its not a support board. S&M Dark is a place for those of us who are not seeking support, but fellowship, and who have leanings to the "Darker side".
Drama Llamas and self righteous moralists need not apply.
(and yes there IS a difference between "immoral" and "illegal" and the person who tried to call S&M D "criminal" should look up the above quotationed definitions... my lawyer assures me there is nothing illegal about it, but the morals might be questionable, depending on who is doing the judging)
Smoke and Mirrors on YUKU will still be the same support board its ALWAYS been. We've had some staff changes, but the changes have been VERY good! When we move S&M on YUKU it will go back to being the board it USED to be when I opened it. One where ANY vampiric topic can be discussed... Any question asked. I didn't build S&M to spend every minute censoring posts. Thats not my job and I never want it to be so.
Those who come to S&M come to talk about what is on their mind or troubling them. We all need a place to be ourselves. I will never let others dictate to me what can and can't be discussed. Never have, never will. Sometimes you gotta stick with what you believe in, and I believe in S&M.
(and lets face it i'd be there collecting my articles and spells even if no one else was around... you don't really think I want to go back to collecting ALL THAT SHIT on my hardrives, do you???)
So... its still the same old controversial me... If you REALLY want to know what happened, don't go with the rumours. Just come ask me, and I'll SHOW you.
Carpe Noctum!
(and Happy New Year!)
Lady CG.