Nov 17, 2004 09:32
Let me present you with a hypothetical situation and you tell me how you feel about it. I will use random names just so you don't become confused with the relationships between the people.
Timmy and you are best of friends. Yeah you have your ups and downs and you are currently down, on your way up. Timmy meets Jane and they become fast friends. Jane is jealous of your relationship with Timmy so she does something deliberate to try to break up that friendship. Timmy realizes Jane's actions aren't the most notable and stops talking to her. Now, a few months later you and Timmy are in a downtime. Timmy decides that he's going to start talking to Jane again.
Now, I think that I would feel angered by the situation because Timmy is my friend I don't want him to be friends with someone that may deliberately try to ruin his relationships with other people. But ultimately I believe that people should choose their own friends. Just sucks if you have to lose a good one because you don't want to have to deal with anymore deliberate actions.
Totally hypothetical.
Now how would you feel? It's ok if you wanna be friends with Jane. It's ok if you crave attention. I just don't feel that way.
I think all this computer programming is making me think about stupid things too much. Brain's rockin' and rollin'.