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Apr 11, 2005 10:23

Hey all!
It's been a while since I posted so let me get on to business! Well, this weekend full of the same things but hey glad to be alive and feeling better weather. On Friday, I remember the eventful part was practicing the dance for the talent show for April 16th, this Saturday coming up. Ines, the sister coordinating it from Pawtucket, gave me ( Read more... )

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chinitapreci0sa April 12 2005, 13:07:11 UTC
TE ENTIENDO!!!!!

after reading this post reminded me of my own situation i had with my mom & jesse. she gave me a HARD time for dating him. and one issue that she wasn't crazy about was the fact that he was dominican, in her own words "vas a dañar la familia" <--ouch. but throughout the drama we had, "se la gano" trust me jesse demonstrated a lot of patience with everything my mom put us through, and not just any guy would do that; i was surprised to see that he still stuck around. girl cuz we got stories! =p

it took a lot of work & patience from my part and especially jesse to work things out with my momma. because in the end if you're meant to be...you're joining this new family and need to be civil with each other. {especialmente si somos cristianos} so now after all of that mess we went through...my mom LOVES jesse y no quiere cuentas con el. he got the stamp of approval. =p later on she ended up admitting that she was wrong & apologized for everything she put him through. she herself told him she knew that he truly loved me; because he never gave up on the situation and was willing to fight for our love. =D

so my advice to you girl is...give it time. its gonna be rough but if its meant to be, it will happen. and it takes TWO {YOU & DREW} to make this situation work with your parents. you can't carry this load alone. el tiene que demostrar a ellos lo contrario de lo que piensan de el.

sorry for my long reply...i couldn't help it because i can totally relate with you on this. i could go on and on. feel free to contact me for any advice.

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ladaichik April 13 2005, 01:06:13 UTC
=0 wow! thanks so much for your reply... i dont mind it being long at all. thanks! I originally thought my mom had a problem with his skin color... but I was like UH I have like three uncles waaaay darker than Drew. I had no idea that language/culture would be such a huge deal considering I have lived in the States all my life. And I have two cousins on her side that married Europeans... (yea but they know Spanish and Drew doesn't <---- he soo neeeds to get on that).

I am happy that things worked out for you and Jesse. In your case, both of you Hispanic and still there were issues... that amazes me really. For some reason I forgot that people in the outside will always have something to say even if you are trying to do everything right.. keep everyone happy. it's hard ... and my sis told me that it's only the beginning. People will start speculating things and asking questions and making comments ... there isnt any way around it. but honestly, i dont care about anybody else but my parent's opinion cause they my heart but I have to let them know too that my brain does work (as silly and goofy that I may be). Thanks again Tanya... :)

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chinitapreci0sa April 13 2005, 17:51:00 UTC
its true you can't make everyone happy...what matters is YOUR happiness.

anytime girl. i hope things get better <--they will!

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ladaichik April 14 2005, 13:43:56 UTC
hey ...
I looked at ya past entries to see if ya wrote anything about ya relationship bout Jesse... yea I am nosy!!! but just curious to learn from a master... and oh my goodness... now I am a bit petrified... I will comment on ya past entries... I think I will sound too random telling ya stuff here!

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