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What is a boyfriend or a girlfriend, other than someone that you're fucking? Think about it. Usually you love them, but you love your friends and family too, right? And you're never supposed to put this person above yourself, your friends, your family, or anything else in your life. So in essence, your love life is supposed to come after everything else, such as your career, education, what have you. If that's really the case and your friends are supposed to be more important to you, then isn't this person just a glorified fuck buddy with a better title? None of this makes sense. This is why labels cease to exist to me.