Cold and Heartless? Yeah I can handle that.
I am not cold. I am not heartless. I just do not think with emotion goggles on like some brain-dead moron. I do not think with my heart or my genitals, i think with my fucking head. No. Scratch that. I just think which in this society seems to be becoming more and more infrequent. I think with logic and reason, if you do not like it then GTFO.
If you ask me for advice and i warn you that it may be brutal, do NOT get fucking pissy at me when i tell you something you dont want to hear.
If you want a problem solved i will give you the best solution but do NOT bitch at me when it is something you dont like.
Here is my issue of the day: can emotions be controlled?
Hell yes they can!
The only reason a person cannot control themself or their fucking emotion, is because they simply do not want to. They are choosing how they react. No, i am not saying that we choose the emotions that we get. I am saying that we can control them when we recognize them which we do when we get them.
Example (this may be a little harsh... i guess): a girl gets dumped. She states that the guy broke her heart. My argument: IF YOUR HEART WAS BROKEN YOU WOULD BE DEAD, WOMAN! He is not the one who hurt you. You are. You are letting his words give you pain just like giving someone a dagger and using it to "poke" yourself. He probably gave her some wimpy ass excuse because he found some better tail. Get over it and find a new guy to rock your world rather than staying in a slump for a year. No this is not to anyone specific, this is just a common example about some girl who does not exist.
I believe in tough love maybe because that is what i got but it works. It works as long as you dont get all pussied-up defenseless because someone said something that hurt your feelings.
YOU are in control. YOU decide how to react and what those reactions are. and YOU choose to blame others for your own lack of self-discipline.
If you cant handle it, go back in the womb. Let the real men and women handle life at its finest.
If i am cold and heartless, that is just fine. I can stand on my own two feet and not snivel about it.
If you ask me for advice and i warn you that it may be brutal, do NOT get fucking pissy at me when i tell you something you dont want to hear.
If you want a problem solved i will give you the best solution but do NOT bitch at me when it is something you dont like.
Here is my issue of the day: can emotions be controlled?
Hell yes they can!
The only reason a person cannot control themself or their fucking emotion, is because they simply do not want to. They are choosing how they react. No, i am not saying that we choose the emotions that we get. I am saying that we can control them when we recognize them which we do when we get them.
Example (this may be a little harsh... i guess): a girl gets dumped. She states that the guy broke her heart. My argument: IF YOUR HEART WAS BROKEN YOU WOULD BE DEAD, WOMAN! He is not the one who hurt you. You are. You are letting his words give you pain just like giving someone a dagger and using it to "poke" yourself. He probably gave her some wimpy ass excuse because he found some better tail. Get over it and find a new guy to rock your world rather than staying in a slump for a year. No this is not to anyone specific, this is just a common example about some girl who does not exist.
I believe in tough love maybe because that is what i got but it works. It works as long as you dont get all pussied-up defenseless because someone said something that hurt your feelings.
YOU are in control. YOU decide how to react and what those reactions are. and YOU choose to blame others for your own lack of self-discipline.
If you cant handle it, go back in the womb. Let the real men and women handle life at its finest.
If i am cold and heartless, that is just fine. I can stand on my own two feet and not snivel about it.