I feel pretty just the way I am.

Aug 13, 2007 01:05

A guy wrote this in his myspace. and it should make you think--->

"I know way too many really beautiful girls who think they don't look good... It hurts... because it's our fault, guys I mean. We make girls feel like they have to be perfect. You know what I mean, flat stomach, big boobs, round booty, long legs, sexy lips, and on top of all that, they have to dress like a whore, and be one as well... nobody can measure up to that... and its not fair... because nobody should have to. Girls prefer being called beautiful instead of hott or sexy. The little imperfections are what make people special. If everyone was perfect the world would be so boring, variety is what makes life interesting. So guys, stop making girls have to live up to your, I'm sorry, our... deluded fantasy visions of perfection. Stop acting like boys and start being men... realize that women don't exist to fulfill our sexual desires. Stop talking to them solely to get with them, be nice to them because you want to be their friend, not because you want to hook up with them. Don't say nice things about them not to flatter them in hopes that you'll get some, but because its true and you know they like to hear them. In short... we need to grow up and stop acting like freakin retarded little boys."

Girls who agree, repost. and to the few guys who have balls and agree

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You know, I don't like it when people go around saying "omg size 5 is sooooo HUGE". And I don't like it when shallow slobs wear shirts that say "No fat chicks". Those kinds of things are what make us feel bad. Why do girls try so hard to look pretty, and why are we never satisfied with how we look? Something must've happened to make us think that we're not good enough the way we are. Once I was harassed by two (stupid) boys- I'm not going to forget it. I didn't pay any attention to them and they just kept saying things like "Heeeyyy hott girl!!!!", and then laugh. One even poked my butt. I kept ignoring them so they wouldn't get any satisfaction from a reaction. I bet they did that because I wasn't a stick wearing impressive clothes... If I was like that, they would've said much dirtier things. And if I was the kind of loose girl they were looking for, I would have encouraged that behavior. What they did really hurt, and it made me feel so ugly. Those were the kind of little retarded boys that the message above was talking about. Real men appreciate women just the way they are. I hate how beauty is so distorted... We would be so uninteresting if we all had the same perfect nose, perfect teeth, the same shape, the same hair and flawless skin... We'd all look the same. I have a lot of 'imperfections', and I'm not model material, but who cares. (Not that models are bad or anything. Some people do have a lot of good features, so... yay for them.) I'm not going to go out of my way and make myself something I'm not in order to impress a bunch of silly horny people (and shallow guys) that want hott and "perfect". I'm unique, and I like it. I use the features that I have. I'm accepting myself more and more, and that's what makes me feel pretty. Embrace yourselves, people! You're pretty just the way you are.

This video (it's short) makes me sad. Sure, she's very pretty at the end, after all the makeup and photo editing... But I liked how unique she looked before they made her look like someone else. The end result wasn't real.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fz5IRdFIpvA
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