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so here's my rant of the day....
what do you all think is an average amount of time to spend with a significant other? I know it varies from relationship to relationship, but i'm talking a rough estimate here.
Tyler seems to think that if you see each other a couple times a week, then that's plenty. I disagree. So today I tell him that I'm upset that we haven't seen each other much this week. He responds by saying "we've seen each other a lot." So I count off the times we've seen each other this week. Monday (he hung out with his friends, we had dinner together, then we went back out for his birthday where he spent the majority of his time with his friends...which seriously is fine, it's his birthday.) we spent the day together tuesday, and we had a brief lunch together today. That's it. We're both working tomorrow, sunday, and monday. we probably won't see each other until monday night, if we're lucky.
So apparently, we max out at 3 times. It's frustrating because we have an awesome relationship, and i know he likes spending time with me, but it's frustrating when it seems like he doesn't want to compromise.
what do you all think is an average amount of time to spend with a significant other? I know it varies from relationship to relationship, but i'm talking a rough estimate here.
Tyler seems to think that if you see each other a couple times a week, then that's plenty. I disagree. So today I tell him that I'm upset that we haven't seen each other much this week. He responds by saying "we've seen each other a lot." So I count off the times we've seen each other this week. Monday (he hung out with his friends, we had dinner together, then we went back out for his birthday where he spent the majority of his time with his friends...which seriously is fine, it's his birthday.) we spent the day together tuesday, and we had a brief lunch together today. That's it. We're both working tomorrow, sunday, and monday. we probably won't see each other until monday night, if we're lucky.
So apparently, we max out at 3 times. It's frustrating because we have an awesome relationship, and i know he likes spending time with me, but it's frustrating when it seems like he doesn't want to compromise.