To all others who wish to contemplate the whole wedding thing, learn this lesson from me. If you don't need to worry about it now DO NOT WORRY ABOUT IT NOW. Date, guest list, venue and theme/style. Get those four things sorted first and the rest you can plan and budget for from there. Decorations, stationary, catering, seating, music, entertainment and table toppers all count as later.
In other news
I personally really like the topper on the first one. Not sure that style is 'us' but that will be decided upon later.
http://www.cakewrecks.com/home/2013/6/30/sunday-sweets-drama-queens.html I showed it to She of the Awesomes and got a 'THAT FIRST CAKE IS THE ONE I WAAAANT'. I think she likes it too, don't you? ;)
(Don't mind me, long day with stupid questions. I'm feeling a touch snarky.)