Confrontation
I need to make a confrontation with my best friend today but I do not know what to say exactly. First of all, we are really close. He recently became single in January and since I liked him so much, I was REALLY happy. We ended up fooling aound twice, but never had sex. He then on my birthday, March 17th, said he was busy studying but that we could do a raincheck for sex. I was obviouslly really happy about that. Then spring break came and he returned back to college and told me that he was sort of seeing another female. I was really confused and upset but I remainded calm when he told me. He then asked why we never had sex, and I told him the truth. He told me back in December that he would like to see me naked but that he woulnt want to get in my pants. Also, and I did not tell him this but I think I should, when we fooled around, HE was the one who got out of bed, HE was the one who went into the bathroom and washed his hands, and HE was the one who said he had to go to class. I never left his bed until he told me he had to go soon. So what did I do wrong? if he is seeing another girl, even though hes one of my best friends at college, I don't think I could see or hang out with him for a while until I feel better. I just dont understand what I did wrong. How do I tell him all of this today without breaking down and crying or being a complete bitch about it? And if I still like him, how do I compete with this girl