Why?
Why? Seriously why!!!! A friend I care a lot about is pissed at me. I'm not exactly sure why but I have a couple of suspicions. I asked her point blank why she was mad at me and basically got out of it that 1. Yes, she is actually pissed at me. 2. That my not knowing why makes her more pissed at me. and 3. That whatever did is so horrible that she won't be able to get over it for awhile. To top it off, apparently, one of our mutual friends is pissed at her because of me. This is news to me. Especially considering I just hung out with him tonight and we had a nice chat about this and he is under the impression that she is pissed at him. At least that's as far as I'm interpreting things.
She basically doesn't want anything to do with me for awhile it sounds like. Which frankly hurts.
I let her live with me this summer, had to talk my land lady into letting her stay. Tell constantly that she is welcome to stay as long as she needs to. Then when she tells me she moving out, I say okay, when are moving so I can make sure I'm there to help. I make arrangements to get my mom's SUV up here to move. I offer her a bed to take. I keep asking what's going on how can I help? Throughout this I keep telling her she can stay as long as she needs at my place. Her new apartment still needed to have some work done, but she insists she what's to move. So I help her. Ask her what's going on. She comes home sick and isn't sure what she wants do to, but insists she still wants to move stuff. I volunteer to load and unload stuff for her so she doesn't have to do anything because I can tell she isn't feeling well. And some how I think this just makes her more pissed at me. I DON'T UNDERSTAND!!!!!!!
I'm trying to be helpful and available in every way I possibly can and I just don't know what else to do. Advice please!!!!
I care about this friend a lot and really hate to loose a friendship over...well I don't exactly know what.
Once again the above is my interpretation of the situation. It is how I am percieving the way things played out. The observations stated above are my own and no one elses.
Also, I've you are going to comment please leave names out. Just one of my weird quirks. Thanks all!
She basically doesn't want anything to do with me for awhile it sounds like. Which frankly hurts.
I let her live with me this summer, had to talk my land lady into letting her stay. Tell constantly that she is welcome to stay as long as she needs to. Then when she tells me she moving out, I say okay, when are moving so I can make sure I'm there to help. I make arrangements to get my mom's SUV up here to move. I offer her a bed to take. I keep asking what's going on how can I help? Throughout this I keep telling her she can stay as long as she needs at my place. Her new apartment still needed to have some work done, but she insists she what's to move. So I help her. Ask her what's going on. She comes home sick and isn't sure what she wants do to, but insists she still wants to move stuff. I volunteer to load and unload stuff for her so she doesn't have to do anything because I can tell she isn't feeling well. And some how I think this just makes her more pissed at me. I DON'T UNDERSTAND!!!!!!!
I'm trying to be helpful and available in every way I possibly can and I just don't know what else to do. Advice please!!!!
I care about this friend a lot and really hate to loose a friendship over...well I don't exactly know what.
Once again the above is my interpretation of the situation. It is how I am percieving the way things played out. The observations stated above are my own and no one elses.
Also, I've you are going to comment please leave names out. Just one of my weird quirks. Thanks all!